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NOT EVERYONE ON THE BEACH IS A CRIMINAL?





This personal blog ISN'T about Maasai people, it ISN'T about Maasai tribe and it ISN'T about Maasais culture. This blog is about people from Maasai community who are making frauds on women at Zanzibar with goal to get their money by the way of the lies or of the theft.


YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT MAASAIS WHO ARE AT ZANZIBAR IS NOT WHOLE MAASAIS POPULATION / WHOLE MAASAIS TRIBE. MOST OF MAASAIS ARE JUST AT HOME IN THE BUSH AND THEY MAYBE ARE TRYING TO LIVE THERE GOOD AND HONEST LIFE. DOING NO CRIMES, WORKING WITH COWS, TRYING TO SURVIVE AND TRYING TO GET MONEY FOR THEIR BIG  FAMILIES. BUT EASY MONEY IS LIKE A CANCER AND THAT'S WHY NOW MANY MAASAIS PEOPLE ALSO IN THE BUSH ARE THE PART OF THESE SCAMMS ON WHITE WOMEN. WHAT CAN YOU SEE AT ZANZIBAR, THESE GUYS ARE MOSTLY BEACHBOYS BUT OF COURSE THEY DON'T DEFINE WHOLE MAASAI CULTURE. AND ALSO WHAT IS NEEDED TO SAY ON THIS PLACE - TO BE A BEACHBOY AND CRIMINAL IS NOT COMPLETELY ABOUT THE LOCATION BUT ABOUT THE MINDSET. IT MEANS YOU CAN MEET A MAASAI - WORKING AT SERIOUS JOB SOMEWHERE AND STILL IN HEAD HE IS A BEACHBOY AND CRIMINAL, USING WHITE WOMEN FOR EACH COSTS. READY TO HURT THEM IN REAL WAY.

There are good people and bad people, not only in the Africa, but everywhere in the world. Although the chance that someone from the beach is a cheater is very high, not everyone is automatically a bad person deserves just a room in the jail ! But if you will meet him on the beach, he is there especially to catch a woman and take her money (in the way of lies and frauds, or in the way of theft) or they want to go with you to Europe (dreaming about easy life and easy money). Most of them don't know that life in Europe is not easy at all and you need to work hard, you have to regret your freedom - to get at least SOME little money. After knowing this, many of them will run back to Africa, to enjoy their maasais life full of freedom and delights. 

Who is BEACHBOY from our point of view:
BEACHBOY IS A PERSON HAVING THE PLAN TO CATCH A WHITE WOMAN FOR REACHING HIS MATERIAL NEEDS (TO GET THE MONEY) OR GO TO EUROPE. IN THE SAME MOMENT - THIS PERSON HAS NO GOOD PLANS WITH HIS VICTIM. JUST GETTING HER MONEY AND AFTER THAT DELETE HER FROM HIS LIFE FOREVER AND FIND NEW ONE. TO BE A BEACHBOY IS ABOUT THE MENTALITY. IT'S ABOUT THE ABILITY TO ACT, TO PRETEND AND TO USE OTHERS. IT'S A MINDSET. IT'S AN ABSENCE OF THE CHARACTER. THE ABSENCE OF GOD. AND IT CAN BE EASILY ALSO PERSON WITH SERIOUS EDUCATION OR WITH SERIOUS JOB. IT'S NOT ABOUT THE BEACH, IT'S ABOUT THE BEAST INSIDE OF EMPTY HEART.

To be a beachboy is also a job. Kind of profession. And many people can do the same profession in different way. That's why some of them can be more cruel and terrible, than the others. But all the stories we know, all the women we met and we talked with, always their stories with beachboys have the same ending. Always the same story without any happy end.

People are different, but beachboys have the same goal. Come to Zanzibar (just jobless or for work), catch a woman, get some money from her, to make his own life at home better or use her as a tool to get to Europe. All are the same, but they can be different in the level of cruelty and also in the ability to act and to pretend. Some of them are visible bastards. These people are not dangerous because you can see who they are and you can ran away quickly, not loosing too much from your money, from your time and energy, from your life. But some of them are really good in acting and then you can't see who they are easily. These people are most dangerous. They can take you years and millions of shillings ! Those educated and those with good jobs are more dangerous than primitives who can't even read and write. They use education and their knowledges for frauds and cheating. Also the temper can be different. Some beachboys would never hit you, for any reason, others can beat you until blood without any problem. Not all are the same, but the goal they all are following is always the same. It's their mindset and their hidden and pressed hatred to white people, especially to white women. Some of them honestly believe - to hurt the mzungu is no crime in front of God because white people are less than people and don't deserve anything good. How absurd.


Some beachboys can have serious job out of beach in hotels (those who are educated a bit), some of them can have little shops with souvenirs but the profit from it is small, not enough for them and for their families in mainland. That's why they are also trying to catch tourists for lies. Also those who first came to Zanzibar with honest plan and wish - to have real business or job - later they will start for opportunities how to catch a woman and just use her. They know their future is in the bush with their wives (all of them are married), but they will not tell you about it :) Everyone will sooner or later try to be a beachboy (by profession or by behavior and actions). Beachboy can have around 300 USD from one woman in one month (sometimes much more) and many times they have many women from different countries. They even don't hide themselves on the beach and they are brave enough to walk each week with new-one without any shame in front of people who are living there and observing all. What beachboys are doing is "public secret" because they even don't try to hide it anymore. Nobody talks about it but everyone knows it. Some of them can have also 2000 USD in one single month. So those who only have shops don't have any chance to get the same money as beachboys are getting each month. All of them, also those still not spoiled will understand this easy math very soon and they will change to be the liar and scammer.

With each success of a beachboy in the way of stealing money or cheating people, the number of those who will join the group of these cheaters and copy them will increase. Also because of YOU ! I don't know which kind of people maasais were in the past. But I know who these terrible people are today is our fault, our guilt and our responsibility. The behavior of white people is silly in the principles. They think they are helping to poor people. In reality they are doing from them walking beasts.

That's why before each action you want to do - think twice which consequences your naivete will have for you, for them and for the whole maasai community:


## FOR YOU
- at the end you will loose all and you will be happy to have little money for ticket back home. Beachboy will take you ALL what you have by deep emotional manipulation and after that  he will block you without feeling ANY SORRY. Sometimes forever and sometimes only until time, you will get some money again. Your value is only in money. If you have money - you are interested person for them. If you don't have money you are less than nobody, whatever what you already did for them. Without money your value for them will be zero and they will feel ashamed also to know you. They despise with poor people despite the fact they themselves are poor. Pure hypocrisy. 


## FOR THEM
- with each one your dollar, these people will be worse and worse each day and one day they will change for real evils. More and more lazy to work, waiting only for income from you, planning new crimes and looking for new victims because it's the easiest way how to get money. Once they will feel it, once they will start - they will never stop. At least until they will take you ALL what you have. But then they will stop only with you but there are still many stupid and naive white women on the island. They will never stop until they will have youth. In age around 40 will be for them very difficult to find a mzungu, because new young generation of fresh warriors will be already covering the beaches. 


## FOR OTHERS
Consequences for those, who are still on the right way is the most terrible. If these people still really exist, somewhere.  Cheaters and liars will be rich, having better life (thanks to you), what can (and will) demotivate those who are trying to be normal and straight, working hard. Then this lifestyle will spread through the society as the cancer and it will be very hard to stop that. At the end, Maasai people will have very bad reputation by the time and their culture will slowly turn to be the culture of prostitutes, liars, scammers, criminals and cheaters. It will not help to anyone. Also these people will never understand what "work" does mean. And once they will loose the possibility to catch mzungu (this will happen when they will be around 40 years old), they will not know how to earn money and how to keep them. Many of those who were rich in the gold age of being beachboys, will be going older in poverty and in the gloom. Without habits how to work, they will not be able to find any money anymore. 

Think about that how much your money is helping them for the future. Your good heart is for them just a weakness and more you are giving them, more unrespect these guys are feeling to you. I saw many times how they were laughing from stupidity of women who trust them and who are paying for their dirty life.


If nobody will stop this, then after some time, straight, proud and strong Maasai people will be quickly replaced by  individuals living from crimes only.

Don't trust anyone from Maasai tribe you will meet at Zanzibar and never put him to your business. For any reason ! Really NEVER. You will spare many problems and money, otherwise you will loose all after time. He will take you as much as possible, and after that he will never look back at you and you will have only one possibility. To accept that you easily fell in the trap with an evil. And at the end you will be happy to have small money to be able to fly back home and you will never come back. From words like Zanzibar or Maasai you will want to vomit each time of hearing it. The messing your life up with these people will lead you to whole life long deep trauma. They will teach you how terrible and cruel humans can be and they will also show you there is no God in Maasai culture.  At least not that one who would be fair to everyone equally. They are always adapting all for their own benefits and they adapted also God exactly as they need him to be  

Use your brain and take your part of responsibility for the situation with tribe of Maasai.

Because nothing in this universe is for 100 %, still there is a very small  chance, that also someone from the beach is a nice person. But in years I don't know about such a case. The chance is very small but can maybe exist, who knows. Just observe always behavior of your maasai friend, use critical thinking, stay in reality with him, be very careful and if you will see something what we already described in this blog, just run away immediately. It's the only way how you can save your life.  Everyone needs own chance to show you who is he but with maasai from Zanzibar - to give them a chance is very very risky for you, because they can show up their real face after years and after a lots of your loses. We don't recommend you to give them any chance otherwise you will regret it later when will be already late for you. But if you still feel that you want to trust them - then ok, but be careful, OPEN your EYES and after first red flag - run ! You will save not only your money, but also broken heart, physical and mental health and whole your existence. Find someone for love who will be supportive partner, find a person who will be  serious in feelings for you, what Maasais are not and cannot be.

Exceptions are very rare. For example the Maasai will lose whole his family by accident and you will be for him the only possibility how to live. Or you can be as lucky as winning in lottery and you can find different one. But the chance is so small that it almost doesn't exist. After each bad experience with these people, don't be quiet, don't be afraid and speak loudly about them and about their dirty tactics. It will help to spread information and it will help to save lives of others. 



 





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  1. Anonymous6/21/2022 5:04 AM

    Are somewhere here on this blog your own stories? How it was in your cases? What happened?

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    1. Anonymous6/21/2022 5:12 AM

      not yet.... The section with stories is in the plan.. you will find it in the top menu next to "ABOUT US" There will be "our stories" and there you can find more stories of more women. Not only ours. But it is a lot of work, really, we also have families and jobs, so pole pole :)

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    2. Anonymous1/05/2023 8:47 AM

      Guys we Thenk soo much for that but we I’m sure that all beach boys from Zanzibar are the same not Masai and not Swahili people or not people from out of Zanzibar because when you see a woman she broke up from one beach boy he will find another one so it’s mean that she just came to Zanzibar to be a sex women

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    3. Anonymous1/13/2023 10:50 PM

      You are Masai yourself? You must be silly. No white women come to Africa to be "sex women". This really made me laugh that you think up anything to get away with your crimes. But Masai in Zanzibar they all are really the sex gigolos and can't blame women when they use their service. You gigolos must sell your body honestly with honest price but your big problem is that you are big cheaters and lie about love , about you having no wives and children and lie about many problems just to get more and more money. Now you blame the women who believe your lies because they are good at heart. This is really not good. You see how bad is karma for you already, the Masais are suffering because no rain for cattle, problems with government and is getting more bad. Do you know why? When you go to your laibon to get more sex powers then you ask him how many curses he sees on the Masais. You underestimate the power of women. When they get angry they can curse you and today there are too many angry women because of your crimes. Many women together are big power like ngai. Slavic women curse a lot. And there are great laibons in the north so you must be very careful with northern women. Maybe only Italian you can play with. Your situation really makes me sad because I like all indeginious people and their tradition and it is so much shame that Morani gigolos bring lethal karma to your tribe. The only thing you can do is to start apologizing and asking for forgiveness. Ofcause you must find a way to pay for your crimes but no cows can help. You have to pay back money for the women who you robbed and you must also pay more for forgiveness. And really beg to forgive so all your families can be released from the curses.

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  2. Anonymous6/21/2022 5:15 AM

    Does anyone know a Masai by name Ngitipati?

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    1. Anonymous1/13/2023 10:26 PM

      There were brothers by that middle name like Paulo njokoride and Kaiya talk very much and persuasive very greedy family

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    2. Anonymous5/04/2023 1:49 AM

      Tak, znam. Jest bardzo przekonujący. Znasz jego przeszƂoƛć?

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  3. Anonymous9/03/2022 5:21 AM

    Does anyone know a Masai in Nungwi name Babalao or Balotelli?

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    1. Anonymous9/04/2022 11:51 AM

      of course yes :) one of the most famous prostitute in Nungwi. New white woman almost each week. Making mess on each disco in Nungwi, each time. Terrible guy, real shame for Maasais. I am always surprised why nobody sent him home until now.

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    2. Anonymous9/08/2022 11:16 AM

      of course everyone knows him

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    3. Anonymous11/22/2022 12:03 AM

      Yes i know him very well , every week with one new mzungu !

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    4. Anonymous3/13/2023 5:03 AM

      Is this Balotelli also using names like Balo and Marko Sandalo? This one married a German woman recently I wonder did she take him to Germany

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    5. Anonymous7/18/2023 10:46 PM

      The guy you call Marko Sandalo has Maasai name Lengai? Stays in Pwani Mchangani?

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    6. Anonymous9/21/2023 7:13 AM



      I don’t want to talk about my name, but I’m from Austria and I met this guy in Pwani Mchangani near TUI Blue in June. His shop is next to Mapenzi and I felt in love with him. He told me his name is Paulo Lekisanda Kinyasilwa and I felt into a trap and gave him a lot of money. I am so ashamed cause I found out he’s married with a german woman and his real name is Marko Lekisanda Kinyasilwa!
      He told me he need the money for his sister and grandma, but it was a lie… a very very mad guy!!!

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    7. Anonymous9/26/2023 8:59 AM

      Sorry for your story. But unfortunately nothing new. He’s one of the famoust prostitutes there. Even a friend felt into a trap 2 or 3 years ago. I wonder why this german woman left him there. Maybe she found out…

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    8. Anonymous10/02/2023 12:03 AM

      Mad guy?
      You tried to buy him off with your thousands of euros when he didn't want to fuck you!
      Again and again you run after him like a bitch in heat and don't notice that he doesn't want anything from you.
      I am very surprised that a woman around 50 has lost face so much, towards her husband, her daughter and makes such a mockery of herself. Even now that I have stopped the visa procedure and Marko has fled to the mainland, you don't stop trying to ingratiate yourself with him.
      He doesn't want you. Get this through your head Matina Falle…
      He told me that you're nothing but an ATM to him. I should be happy that he gets his money from other women like you!

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    9. Anonymous11/06/2023 9:33 AM

      I felt even in a trap with this Marko in beginning of 2022. I‘m Kinga and nearly left my husband for him. I didn’t know that he’s in relationship. I gave him a lot of money.

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    10. Anonymous11/12/2023 2:11 PM

      I‘m also from Poland! We must met him at the same time. Beginning of 2022. my name is Agniezka.
      I was so stupid to believe that he’s seriously with me!

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    11. Anonymous3/20/2024 9:07 PM

      This Austrian stayed with this guy at Nungwi in the house of this crazy German girl who also destroyed a marriage. Jessica is calling herself Mama Jackos or Mama Rasta.
      These women are insaneđŸ«ŁđŸ€­đŸ€”

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    12. Anonymous3/24/2024 5:07 AM

      Such women are simply broken in their head and therefore fail at home in their marriage and/or relationship! They are so broken that they come to Zanzibar for sex and are prepared to pay for it. They are not even ashamed of their disgusting behavior. They don't care how old they are or if they destroy marriages.
      They are unfortunate creatures who will eventually pay the price for their lousy behavior...
      Karma will fix everything, especially they will fail because of the men who will take away their little bit of honor... until they have found another victim!

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  4. Anonymous9/14/2022 6:10 PM

    Somebody knows Fabio from Jambiani ?

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    1. Anonymous9/14/2022 11:54 PM

      many of them use the name Fabio.

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  5. Anonymous9/15/2022 10:05 AM

    You should know a lot of them are not using their real names,if you don't know his real name,I think it's better to forget him

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    1. Anonymous9/17/2022 6:02 AM

      I am with him for 1 year now but don't know his live from before, I am really shocked about this blog , because we have our differences but who's not , I am still happy with him and his family and don't feel abused in anyway, opposite I feel save , enjoyed and satisfying with everything he does for me . I also go to every meeting big and small and the head sjamanen had a chat with me and I am expected. So is this all theatre?? Hard to believe . Somebody explain this to me . Because no I feel brainwashed after reading these horrible accusations. Ashe Naleng .

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    2. Anonymous9/18/2022 3:31 PM

      You don't need to believe anything from here ;) Live your fairytale with Maasai but it will be just short story ;) Just wait a little and you'll see soon :)

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  6. Anonymous9/16/2022 2:32 PM

    Fabio Mdalo Jambiani

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  7. Anonymous9/16/2022 2:33 PM

    He is not using it but is his real name as on his identity card .

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  8. Anonymous9/18/2022 10:27 AM

    OK, so his last name is Jambiani ????? Or an ID from Jambiani ,they need for working there, if they have a shop and of course to pick up money....i think you know. It doesn't really matter, i guess you were reading this Blog and now you know what kind of behavior they have, it's your decision.
    Take care of yourself.

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  9. Anonymous10/15/2022 4:05 AM

    I Fall into massai trap too even i lived /worked in Tanzania and was there many times. Met him in zanzibar last year. He walked with me every day on beach, was nice, quiet and bit shy. We did not have anything 2together since i not looked for that. We however kept in touch by whatsapp and of course i was stupid to send him help all time cause i know about poorness in africa and feel sorry. My hearts too big. Since i went to meet friends in arusha now in sept i also go to zanzibar and we meet again. . He was nice but of course i pay all. We had some discussion about that and more and more i mistrusted him. We had big fight on my last day. Am back home now but still text even i realised he lie on me lots. I will continue to play the game but he will not get any money anymore so i guess he will stop this soon. His name is william or Ninai. And of course He loves me so much:-)) Myself am just angry about myself cause i was too stupid and hopefully not catched any deasease. Lesson learned

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  10. Anonymous11/19/2022 7:28 AM

    I know this Maasai too and until now there are 3 white women that were betrayed by him in the past months. I know him personally. He is stealing a lot of money, like A LOT. Ninai is the grandma. She is also living in his village. Currently he is with a mzungu from poland.

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    1. Anonymous12/11/2022 2:21 PM

      From which village is the wiliam or Ninai you know?

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  11. Anonymous12/05/2022 7:24 AM

    Hello, do you know Masai Moi Mkundwa?His beach name is Mango? Also Daniel Mkundwa? I stayed in touch with Moi but he never really asked for any help.But suddenly Daniel is writing to me from Moi’s number and later from his own phone .He said Moi hit a child one week ago,child maybe dies and it is in hospital and Moi is in prison.First Daniel said they need 5000$ for hospital and Moi to go out of prison and now only 500$ to take Moi out. First I was really shocked and felt sorry but it smelled to me like big trap.

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    1. Anonymous12/08/2022 11:05 AM

      oh God :) of course, Daniel Mkundwa is one of the famous beachboys, liar and thief... don't trust him ANYTHING. He is lying in all he said to you. :) 5000 dollars for hospital :) yes of course.. child maybe dies :) yes of course :) 500 dollars to take Moi out :) all these is PURE LIES. Don't feel sorry, really, it's a big LIE :) just fairytale with goal to get your money ;) how long time this will work for these loosers.

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    2. Anonymous10/12/2023 4:58 AM

      Tak ,znam Mango,zostalam przez niego okradziona z wiekszej gotowki i pobita.Kreci sie przy Tui blue Hotel

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    3. Anonymous10/12/2023 5:10 AM

      I know Mango very well.He robbed my safe of a lot of cash and beat me up.He hangs out at the Tui Blue Hotel.He hasa brotherand unde

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  12. Anonymous1/19/2023 2:32 AM

    I'm from Zanzibar born and grew up Jambiani. I've got chance to study history. I know the life is changing but what I know from my studies plus some normal conversations with Maasai is that Maasai always proud of living in communal life, doing pastoralism in their society, they are happy in this life. If you can see maasai coming to the beach doing business it's like giving up in their life and now they want to control life in plan B. And the easiest way is to find mzungu. But the most problem now they mis use mzungu by doing theft and cheating.

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    1. Anonymous2/21/2023 6:40 PM

      I am not sure if they gave up with the life. What can I see, all the beachboys have very beautiful life in Tanzania. .new houses, many motorcycles, solar panels, shops, a lot of cows, new phones, new expensive clothes, they really don't look like someone who gave up his life ;) In each case, nothing gives them any right to use other people in bad way. They are criminals and criminals need to be punished. Until it will not happen, group of these criminals will grow up each year more and more and in 10 years after now Zanzibar and Maasais will have very bad reputation. If criminals would be in prison for at least 5 years for the crimes they are doing, the numbers of those who would be brave enough will be very low. But without any punishment ? Why to stop. .. They would be just stupid if they would stop.

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  13. Anonymous1/25/2023 3:46 AM

    If you are stupid enough to fall for and give money to a beach boy whether he is Maasai or Swahili, in Zanzibar or Thailand or anywhere then you are a sad case and need to get a life. If you are serious about wanting to help people get out of poverty then that is another matter. Wherever you are in the world, be safe and don’t let men take advantage of you.

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    1. Anonymous3/13/2023 5:27 AM

      If you come into this blog to blame the victims and call them stupid it only shows you are stupid and need to get a life. I think you are a criminal yourself. If people want to help the poor then they go to charity organizations. If you are poor and need help you also need to ask help from charity organizations. But instead you start lovebombing and manipulating women. This is you who are stupid not women with good hearts who feel sorry for you.
      In Instagram, fb and blogs like this I can see so much hatered and racism from black people! They are hypocrite and inside hate europeans and blame always the white people in every problem they have. Always playing on the slavery card but not knowing history at all, that it was the locals who started selling slaves to white merchants at the first place. The slavery was started by the black themselves.
      And until now they steal from each other and also the tourists and they think they have a right to do it, that a white person is a wallet and has to give them money. Just primitive selfish people who you can never trust.

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  14. maria5/12/2023 5:37 PM

    Slavery existed and is still existing all over this world since human life started.
    It is always easy to blame others or conditions for own poverty but at least everybody has to fight for humanrights and own dignity.If you rich it is easier also if you are not white or colorpeople European

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  15. Anonymous6/18/2023 3:22 PM

    Hello everyone, just found this very informative blog.
    I have travelled for some months in Tanzania with work and made some Maasai friends - just friends, no discussions of love or anything like that. But now one of them is asking me if I can help him with some money because his father is sick, he sent me some photos of medical documents... I would like to help because I have seen how difficult life can be there, but after reading the articles on this blog I'm not so sure anymore. I have had other African friends (women) that have helped with money and jobs, but once I have started helping they were always asking for more, so I don't want to fall into that trap again.

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    1. Anonymous6/21/2023 12:36 AM

      To help them is not easy at all, because all those frauds they are using with us. I would like also to help them but it's very complicated. They always will lie. They also lie, when they don't need to lie. For them is lying very normal, daily routine. I have a feeling many times, they even don't know they are lying, so normal it is for them. About the "sick father", "sick mother", "sick one of his 30 sisters or brothers" this is their very common and one of the favorite lies. The problem is, if once this will be truth, nobody will help them because of many lies before. But they don't think like this. They don't know they are making by lies their reputation very bad. They cannot think deeply and count with consequences. Also the documents about "sickness", they have many documents, because for very little money doctors will give them whatever they need to convince mzungu. It's one big dirty game. They have all kinds of documents you can imagine. Also the pictures of injuries, just black leg, black hand and everyone will tell you it's his father, mother, whatever. Don't play this game with them, with 99 % chance it's a fraud. Those who really have problem, nobody will trust them.

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    2. Anonymous6/21/2023 12:41 AM

      and also be very careful how much they ask. It's very normal, for something they need 100 000 Tsh, they will ask you without any problem or feeling of shame just 5 millions. Remember - the health care for maasais and also local people definitely is available. They always (really always) ask unreal money (they are always hoping that mzungu is stupid, knowing nothing and they really count with that. That's why they don't like to see a mzungu to talk too much, to ask too much, because then mzungu will have more information what is very bad for them. The stupid mzungu without any information - the best mzungu. Remember that.

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    3. Anonymous6/21/2023 1:22 AM

      https://maasaisbeachboys.blogspot.com/2022/06/listen-or-where-is-truth.html

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  16. Anonymous6/22/2023 3:18 AM

    Thank you for your reply, yes my friend was asking for a large amount of money, that's why I got suspicious, because it was something like 700 euros, which is a very large amount of money in Tanzania (and not such a small amount even here in Europe)... I feel sad for this because he seemed like a very decent guy, but I guess in most cases it's just a matter of time until they reveal their true intentions :(.
    When I was there I bought lots of school supplies for the children, shoes, I paid for malaria treatments, so I guess they thought I was very rich so it shouldn't be a problem for me. I think they don't realise our money doesn't fall from the sky, we work hard for it and we are just normal people, not some sort of rich moguls.

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  17. Anonymous7/28/2023 5:56 AM

    I'm sorry to say this but every local friend I made in Tanzania (women and men, Swahili and Maasai) has asked for money. And I can understand that up to a point, it's a very poor country, people are facing lots of difficulties, and I don't mind helping friends when I can. The problem is once you help them the requests keep on coming, there are always so many issues, and the amounts they ask for are increasing every time... I don't know what to believe anymore, if these people understand the meaning of friendship, or if they even like mzungus as friends, or they just need an extra source of income. Maybe it was my mistake that I helped them and was not able to set firmer boundaries, but now every time they get in touch is to ask for something.
    I will soon go back to Africa and I was looking forward to meeting them again, but now I don't know. Maybe the cultural differences are just too important for most of these relationships (whether they are about friendship or romantic interest) to work, which is very sad and disappointing, but I guess it is what it is.

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    1. Anonymous7/31/2023 3:09 PM

      You don't mind helping friends when you can. Nice. Problem is, you are not for those people any friend. Just wallet only. Once you will stop to help - you will stop to exist. I am not sure if this can ever be called "friendship". Next problem is - you never know about "issue", they lie in every single one sentence. And they are very selfish. It's enough to see them each single day drunk. You don't need to believe in anything. Just come often to Zanzibar, after few years, you will know. But until that time you will loose a lot of money for people, who doesn't deserve any help. Also the trust, they are poor - many times they are more rich as you think, you would be surprised to know how rich those people are. But you cannot know. Once you will know, you will not pay for them anymore. And they are rich today, because stupid mzungus are paying and paying and paying. Every single their lie. These people don't understand any meaning of friendship, especially not with mzungu, and especially not with woman. Mzungu woman - completely crazy combination. Maasai never can be a friend with a mzungu. Maasai will try to fuck each mzungu he will meet and get her money by manipulation, frauds and lies. That's all. Nothing like friendship to woman exists in maasai world. And you will understand it once. We are only source of their income (because they don't work, they don't create anything). All money they have is from mzungus, or from heritage. Only these two options. People are trying to hide maasai crimes and their rotten souls behind "cultural differences". One day you will fully understand whom you are dealing with. And it will be not any nice awakening. Once you will stop to be nice - nobody of those you helped them already will know you. Wait for it. Hopefully you will not loose too much. This blog is still not that much bad. The reality about this tribe is thousands more worse. People still don't have any idea.

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  18. Anonymous7/31/2023 2:15 PM

    Very right

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  19. Anonymous8/06/2023 5:11 AM

    Yes I'm starting to feel like a wallet, which I don't particularly care for... In any event I told my friends ("friends"?!) I hope we are not friends just because of money and that I cannot help them anymore because I have my own issues (which is true). I will get back to Tanzania in a few weeks and I don't feel like meeting any of the local "friends" again after all this. Honestly I don't even know if I have the strength to brave Zanzibar again by myself, too much hassle to deal with the locals.

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  20. Anonymous8/06/2023 11:42 AM

    Why do many people know that many white people have sex here in Zanzibar? It is known that and also no white person believes in love with a black person, stop slandering us if you think we are not good for them, don't come to our countrywhy people have become so bad in this world of god

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    1. Anonymous8/07/2023 10:34 AM

      What do you mean white people have sex in Zanzibar? Alone? It's very well known that black people offer sex for money to white people in Zanzibar. Can you answer this question why is that? Why zanzibarians and Africans see white people only as walking wallets? Why black people cheat white people in every way just to get money? Answer this please! All zanzibarians NEED white people to come to your country because the island depend on white tourizm. Why do you think masais come to Zanzibar? To herd cattle? To get tanned? To swim and eat fish? Correct answer is to hunt white women, to cheat them by lovebombing, to get money and that is all, simple as that. So just f... of with your silly talk narobong gotonjo and be ashamed of your people, nobody respects zanzibarians, and sadly nobody respects masais anymore, some Roch white people just use you as domestic animals who can bang them but to be true, you also only know the animal style to have sex, not worth it

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    2. Anonymous8/11/2023 1:26 AM

      Funny how the locals have somehow convinced themselves white people (and more specifically women) are coming to Zanzibar for sex... Probably a few are coming for that, but most are not, which doesn't stop the local men from chasing virtually every white woman they meet. At this point I would pay money just to be left alone and not hear about how good they are in bed (the misplaced confidence is astounding), how I need to have the full African experience (I don't), try a black 🍌 and so on. Next time I will probably dress in a big burka and hope for the best :)).

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    3. Anonymous8/12/2023 3:54 PM

      Their self-confidence is never-ending. They really honestly believe, they are special. They really believe no-one can resist :) Try to send them to the hell on the beach and you will see their true faces. Ugly cruel faces of empty souls. That image they are trying to sell is FAKE. And culture ? :) They just just this culture ONLY as the advantage for them. Advantage in front of mzungus, in front of Zanzibari and in front of government. Now-days they also use own culture, but look at them, how they behave. They don't respect anyone - even not own culture. This new generation doesn't care anymore. They have dreads as morans, they don't know how to greet older maasais, they are drunkers, they are thieves, nothing from this their culture is telling them. These loosers from the beach will take whole the culture to the hell and it looks like nobody cares. For money everything also to loose own roots.

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  21. Anonymous8/07/2023 10:51 AM

    Oh you Masai boy in Zanzibar, I have all the answers to you. Why white people don't believe in love with your kind? Well, sadly some silly people do but they should not. Most people don't because they already know most black people are just cheaters and you don't know what love is, you just play the game to get money. For white women you are only good for bad sex. You hunt white women and it's easy to get in bed with you but it's nothing good, just for casual entertainment. You have made this world of god a place of cheating and dishonesty. Nobody respects you anymore

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    1. Anonymous8/22/2023 7:59 PM

      I don't have a reason for everyone to respect me when you want to don't respect me it's not a thing for me because I don't know why maybe you want me to talk the truth is ok my friend when you want to don't respects me đŸ„°

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    2. Anonymous8/24/2023 12:43 PM

      Ofcaurse you Masais have no reason for people to respect you, you just need money, not respect 😆 everyone can see that and this is why tourists don't trust you in Zanzibar so forget your business there and go back to the bush, you are not able to talk any truth and we don't want to hear anything from you

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  22. Anonymous8/09/2023 12:08 AM

    Many white people believe in love and friendship and good relationships in general with black people and all kinds of people... I also believed it, but sadly now after many African experiences I'm not sure anymore. But it's completely wrong to say white people as a whole have a problem with black people, because many of us don't care about skin colour or any of that. On the other hand, I'm not sure most Africans like white people at all, or just think of us like some sort of strange creatures that can be useful... There are good and bad people everywhere, but when you get burned too many times you have to start thinking twice about trusting all these very friendly nice people.

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  23. Anonymous8/09/2023 3:38 AM

    Of course, it's like that. There are bad and good people everywhere, but in general, white people don't care who has which color of skin. And me - I was ok with all people, since I am living at Zanzibar, I don't trust anyone black anymore. Not because I wanted be like that. But because they were teaching me for many years to be like that. You can be sure - once you deal with black one here on island, he will try all possible to cheat on you. He will try all possible to get your money. Sadly to say this - but these people here don't like mzungus and most of them HATE us. So sad, but it's truth. I am not a psychologist so I don't know exactly why but it's like that. I am here cheated many times a DAY, on each step. In the bus, in the shop, in the restaurant, just completely everywhere. And it's very annoying. I am so exhausted, better staying in the room most of the time. And it's really not only money issue, they honestly don't like white people , for them we are good ONLY for giving them money. More I am here - more I don't understand why the white people are in such so terrible environment as this island is. Why not everyone is tired as I am. They just ignore what is happening here or what ? I don't know. And Maasais :) maasais is special sort, those guys, honestly ALL OF THEM, are lying you from first second, from first talk. They lie and lie and lie. Now new fashion - they all are from ARUSHA :) I have to laugh. Omg. First sentence with them on the beach and immediately lie. But I can see many of them are VERY simple people. With no intelligence. So then. To confront them has no sense. Also if they would speak perfect English, their brain is in 97 % of cases just completely empty, as their hearts and as their words. And they don't care at all. They will not feel guilty, even not stupid, because they can't think as a human being. They are animals from the bush without feelings and we need to adapt this fact. Unfortunately there is no big difference between locals - swahili and maasais. The same story. But maasais are organized group, other difference - nothing. Same empty souls, so cruel and without any self-reflection.

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    1. Anonymous8/11/2023 1:15 AM

      Yes it's very sad, I was thinking maybe this is a sort of "reverse racism", and after hundreds of years of white people exploiting Africa now the tables have turned (of course Zanzibar is a bit of a different story since they were mostly under the Sultanate of Oman, so not really white exploitation)...
      There is also poverty, lack of education, and this "lifestyle" of always choosing the easiest way, which mostly involves scamming. And of course a culture (both for Swahili people and Maasai) where women are seen as inferior, never really heard or seen or considered as human beings entitled to rights, freedom, respect and love. If anything the men love and respect their fellow men, and not women. Women are commodities, tools, good for labor, making children, or money and sex if they are white. What can we expect from a culture where women are not even allowed to eat at the same table with the men, and where they are circumcised to make sure they will endure a life of pain and never feel any pleasure?!
      I have also heard many stories from expats living on the island, their business dealings with the locals are very difficult, as for relationships they mostly avoid any relationships with African people and stick to their communities (which I used to think it's very strange and to be honest I was judgemental about it, but now many travels and the time spent in Africa made me reconsider things).
      Next month I will go back to Tanzania for work, it will be my 4th time and I'm already dreading it... I will probably be one of those people I used to judge before, that spends their time with other white people and avoids mingling with the locals...
      Also my local "friends" have stopped reaching out once I no longer helped them with money, which I guess is a good thing đŸ€·.

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  24. Anonymous8/12/2023 3:38 AM

    True. Racism has become strong habit of black people these days. They blame white world for all of their troubles because it's easy to blame, it's much harder to learn and to work. Racist Africans are not very clever. They even don't know that it was Muslims who started slavery hundreds of years before any slave was sold to white west and that Africans themselves sold their people as slaves. Selling and buying human body is African tradition and you continue with it until today.
    Maasais are no better. Big liars. I know this maasai boy here who speaks of god world. He even has forgotten about maasai god and speaks of Christ. With Christianity maasai tradition has gone down the drain because the tribes people are not clever , they are naive like children. But they are very narcissist and think they are very clever and can fool white women. This maasai boy here is the spy for the tribe because he knows better English and speaks of christian god. His role here is to fool women that they have good intentions and then spy of women who are seeing the truth. Also he informes the maasais of danger because they are all connected and because now very many women take the maasais cheaters to court. Many maasais are the in jail already for their crimes, many have to pay back for their cheating but most of them are still running and still believe that they won't be cought. As I say, they are naive.
    There are hundreds of new court cases opening every day against maasais and soon there will be bigger international raid. So I recommend to every cheated woman to get lawyers and take your maasais to court. Don't believe their lies. And to maasai cheaters I recommend to pay your women back as soon as you can if you don't want to spend your whole life in jail. You maasai spye pass this information to your tribe

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    1. Anonymous8/12/2023 1:49 PM

      Yes I think they follow this blog through some smarter ones that know better English, because some of them told me that people are complaining about them on the Internet, but it's not fair because they are not all like that, it's just a few bad ones that give them a bad name. Of course the reality is quite to the contrary, I think there are probably a few good ones (I mean I want to believe this), while the vast majority are bad... Even the nicest and the most polite still start to play the game at some point, it's just a matter of time from my experience, sadly. I actually asked some of them directly why they keep playing like this, when they surely have wives at home, but they somehow always avoid the answer. Yet they pretend they are "the good ones", they don't lie or cheat, or want "friends with benefits".

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    2. Anonymous8/12/2023 3:45 PM

      unfortunately the all are the same, all on the beach. Remember. Guys on the beach are there only for one goal - to find mzungu. And not for loving her, but for cheating her. Sad. As mentioned here million times, they don't need any mzungu for other reason than money. They don't know how to respect a woman because 25 years all of them were growing up in unrespect to women, they will not now change because of anything. And why all are the same, because of that culture and because of the beach. All don't respect women expect of their mother (in some cases mothers). And all are on the beach TO LOOK FOR MZUNGU. No other reason. Earning money with little poor shops ? :) This money are so small that's not enough even for himself. And he needs to feed his family at home, his wife, his parents, his younger siblings and his children. You are only as a pocket and sooner or later, every single one woman will understand this. They all are the same, the only difference is in personality, some of them are violent, some of them are more calm, some of them are patient, some of them are silly and some of them more smart. Some of them hate women and hate mzungus, some of them are more friendly, but still the goal is always the same - to catch mzungu, to use her as much as possible and after all kick her ass and run back to bush for their families. You will not find any exception there. And they will be never punished for any crime they will do. That's why they will never stop with cheating, stealing money, using people in bad way. Why they should stop. Not reason to stop.

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    3. Anonymous8/13/2023 1:24 AM

      What a horrible culture that forces women to be domestic slaves and men to be prostitutes... Entire families and villages surviving off these schemes and encouraging them, it's really quite sick! 😞
      Maybe if they don't have enough money they shouldn't have so many wives and children, or they should try to educate their children so they can have a better future that is not based on dirty money from cheating mzungus.

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    4. Anonymous8/18/2023 4:06 AM

      exactly !

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    5. Anonymous8/18/2023 5:14 AM

      Polygamy is their culture, this you can't change jus by "maybe". It's actually more wide and ancient culture than monogamy which is actually just a quite sick invention of Christianity and is even not working. You are right about education, but think how is it possible to change for them? You go to Zanzibar and are astonished about these gorgeous men. So many of you here have done it and many more will. With this hate and anger nothing will change because none of you can see the way. You should never go hateing another culture. This only leads to revenge. Instead focus on women who are repressed. We should find contact with the women because they have no way out without help and they are the key. They need education, self confidence and real possibility to educate their children. Forget about focusing on men, turn to women instead and everything will change

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    6. Anonymous8/20/2023 5:39 AM

      I cannot see here any hatred or anger in the blog. It's just very SIMPLY and CLEAR information WHAT TO EXPECT AFTER YOU WILL DATE MAASAI BEACHBOY, it's just only information which has to educate women who don't have any idea about all these mentioned here. Polygamy ??? :) Culture? So polygamy and culture is telling someone to steal, to cheat, to robe, to rape, to beat ? :) Polygamy is a system, where BOTH OF THE PEOPLE KNOW EXACTLY what's going on. Man and also woman. That is polygamy. Both of partners agree with these kind of intimate life. But here with beachboys it's just only one side who knows. And this issue on the beach is even not about polygamy at all. It's about MONEY ONLY. They don't care about you, they don't want mzungu as a woman, they want mzungu as a wallet, so this has nothing to do with polygamy. They don't cheat women because they need to marry more mzungus, they cheat because each single one new (or other mzungu) means more profit - more passive income. Don't please talk about culture, or about polygamy. This is GAME OF MONEY. Nothing else. Maasais women are very ok with this game until they can enjoy money of mzungu somehow. :) Nobody from outside can change this. Only leaders of this culture can stop it, nobody else. But because they also have a big profit from beachboys :) they are not going to stop anything, maasais will make crimes on the beach, because WHY NOT ? :) They will be not punished for it. Not punished by police/government , not punished by own families, not punished by the community/society and not punished by mzungus so then WHY THEY SHOULD STOP. Only fear from being punished can stop them and this fear they don't have ;) Because It cannot happened to them. Now imagine Europe - where the criminals would be not punished by anyone, where the criminals instead of shame - they would be heroes :) Try to imagine, how would Europe look like ;) Nobody would be able even go out from the house without being robbed or killed or at least raped. :) So , beachboys will not stop because making crimes has for them ONLY advantages, no dark sides :) And also those who are still good will understand this quickly and they will change . That's why they are all the same - they have to be the same. How sad.

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    7. Anonymous8/20/2023 5:47 PM

      I feel really sorry for the women here who were robbed by Masais and have no courage to fight back. They say even some of you still look for new Masais to get laid and can't get out of the circle. So you have no self-respect but you better stop this silly talk that Masai cheaters can go on unpunished. They can not.most women are smart and take them to court. It takes some nerve but is very much possible and is getting more easy every day the more there are smart women who act and don't just cry here.

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    8. Anonymous9/01/2023 4:19 AM

      Hallo,ich kenne OLE.Habe ihn vor 4 Monaten kennengelernt vor dem Hotel Neptune.Er schrieb und rief mich zuhause weiterhin fast tĂ€glich an,noch vorige Woche.Ich bat ihn jetzt,dass er sich nicht tĂ€glich melden soll,er bekommt von mir keine finanzielle UnterstĂŒtzung.Ich habe das sehr schnell durchschaut.
      Er wirkt auf den ersten Blick sensibel und schĂŒchtern,aber er ist nicht anders als andere auch.Sehr schade😔

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    9. Anonymous9/10/2023 10:33 PM

      Hello thanks for the information. Does the Masai Ole you mean have a gold earring with a cross in his left ear, wears two silver-colored thicker chains, one with a heart pendant, and usually wears his grid braids tied together in a short braid?

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    10. Anonymous9/14/2023 9:35 AM

      Ja,das ist richtig.Er trÀgt diesen Ohrring und beschriebene Ketten.

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    11. Anonymous9/23/2023 1:51 PM

      It’s a friend of Muketo! All time together, right?

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    12. Anonymous9/25/2023 12:06 PM

      Have you had any experience with Ole, if so what? his friend's name is William Sipilali, the two are always together. I don't know a Muketo, but that doesn't mean anything, maybe it's the same one.

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  25. Anonymous8/20/2023 8:13 AM

    Hello ! Is there anyone here who knows the Maasai "Ole" and has had experiences with him? He is always in front of the Hotel Neptune Pwani Beach in Kiwengwa.

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    1. Anonymous8/21/2023 7:21 AM

      If he told you his name is "Ole", he just lied to you ;) but of course, they ALwAYs lie.. "Ole" means "a man" :) so maasais "Ole" are many, they often called themselves "Ole" - MAN :)

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    2. Anonymous8/22/2023 5:23 PM

      just be careful with the Maasai from these villages in Handeni. kiberashi kwediboma kiteto and their lesoit These people are making our tribe to breed here in Zanzibar because of the bad habits of cheating and drunkenness they do, they have run out of shame, they no longer care about the things that should not be done by the mmsai becausethey no longer have morals, our Maasai culture, all Maasai people do not come from the same place, don't blame us all Maasai people, you are very wrong, you do what every Maasai who looks like Zanzibar is not honest, you are very wrong

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    3. Anonymous8/24/2023 12:33 PM

      Dear Masai! Most moranis in Zanzibar are like this, cheat white women, have no morals. So we are not wrong. If you say there are good masais and you don't want us to judge you all by the cheaters in Zanzibar then it is you who must do something about it. It is all Masai community and your community must take care of your criminals who make you all look bad. So tell me, what do you do? I know you have elders and meetings, but why you do nothing to stop the criminals in Zanzibar? Maybe you all need them and I think you are here to just fool us with your talk. You must prove how you stop your criminals or we have to admit that you are just another liar and you all Masais are the same, only lies, no self respect, no intelligence, just robberers.

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  26. Anonymous8/22/2023 9:56 AM

    It's not about hating a culture, but at the same time you can judge a culture by the outcomes it has on a society: is that society free, fair, conducting to equal treatment and equal opportunities for all its members, where people can find their place and happiness or at least peace... So far I'm unable to see the good that Maasai culture brings to their communities - all I can see is children and women being abused (circumcision, oral mutilation, beatings, forced labor, child/forced marriage, polygamy, but only for the men), lack of education and opportunities, which creates a never-ending cycle of trauma that is perpetuated with every generation. And now, I mean for some time, they have discovered mzungu and their money, and from what I can see it looks like they all feel entitled to it. So the abuse of women from their communities now extends to also abusing mzungu women...
    Polygamy and living differently is not the issue, the issue is this a primitive, patriarchal and abusive culture that needs to be called out for what it is. It's very difficult to change things, and not possible from the outside, not even the government is able to do that. So the best we foreigners can do is to research and be prepared to deal with all these "cultural differences", acknowledge the sad reality of the culture and not look at it through rose-colored glasses, or be "astonished by gorgeous men" (frankly I haven't seen that many gorgeous men, but okay). And if we want to help yes we can support children to get an education, or get involved with some local NGOs that are trying to change things.
    But it's not hatred or anger to see reality for what it is, the culture is quite sick and needs some healing. I myself have compassion for everyone, because they are all victims of the culture, but at the same time we also need to protect ourselves to avoid also becoming victims.

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    1. Anonymous9/02/2023 5:17 PM

      It is true that we Maasai are human like other people, we have shortcomings, we are not perfect like other people, we cannot be all good, but why do you count only the bad, you forget the good, you harass us and introduce a lot of bad things on this blog, you do not bring peace, you break peace in the countryWe are in your country. It is better to go to your country if we are bad for you

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    2. Anonymous9/04/2023 1:38 AM

      Oh, maasai, what are you talking about your country and our country. You know well what you all are doing in Zanzibar and it is harassing ANY tourist and hunting them down for money.
      No, your culture is not like other people because you support the crimes of your tribe and this makes everyone of you responsible!
      And the lies! It is just so in your blood to lie. Let's take yourself as example. We know you very well. You tell us you are one of the good ones. Now remember what you promised us! How there will be big meeting for the criminals and how you want to help us. Well you have lied to so many of us and here you are still just spying to warn the criminals. And you call yourself good. If this is your understanding of good then you easily must understand why you Masais are all just scammers and primitive liars. It's you who break the society not tourists. We come there happy and peaceful and what we meet? Aggressive prostitution and even not honest prostitution but love bombing, lies, lies, lies from Masai men! Poor women, I am sorry for your women really who only can actually work and create something. You men just break!
      And now you ask us tourists go back to our country. Who are you exactly to ask that? You are Masai having shop in Zanzibar depending on tourists and depending on Zanzibar government and you ask US to go home? Try telling that to Zanzibar government who welcome us tourist there because all their existendance depend on tourists.
      You know for us it's very easy to end all your business there because we know you, we know your lies and we have proof now you don't welcome tourists in Zanzibar. I think you should go to your country that is in Savannah not on an island. Or if you admit you also need us tourist then start keeping your promises, apologize to everyone you did lie to and become honest. But you can't. Because you are a Masai.

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    3. Anonymous9/05/2023 2:55 PM

      EXACTLY !!!! Well said !

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  27. Anonymous8/22/2023 1:41 PM

    EXACTLY !!!!!!!! btw. me neither ;) I haven't seen ANY that many gorgeous men :) I am trying all my best to see some GORGEOUS men inbetween maasais at Zanzibar, or I can see is cowards and beggers. Very weak boys - let's say stupid children - but for sure not men and especially not GORGEOUS men... where this fairytale with GORGEOUS men came from I don't really know. Maybe other planet;) Maybe MARS. But at Zanzibar I can't see any GORGEOUS men, trying like crazy but nothing until now. :)

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      Probably the longer you stay there and get to know them, the less "gorgeous" they look... :))
      At the end of the day a pretty face cannot make up for an ugly soul, and in any event 99% of them have the emotional range of a child (without taking into account bad intentions or anything else). So I still don't understand how so many women fall for them...

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  28. Anonymous8/22/2023 4:12 PM

    Oh dear, didn't you get the irony?
    "I can't see any GORGEOUS men, trying like crazy".
    so why are you trying like crazy? Why you still need to have a Masai in your bed? One after another. You are causing the problem by encouraging the gigolos, not us women who are compassionate and fell to the trap. You call us grandmas because of our age. Well, we may not get any younger, but neither are you and even this blog won't make you stay young, you'll be a grandma too very soon. And who are you really to judge a different culture?
    "you can judge a culture by the outcomes it has on a society: is that society free, fair, conducting to equal treatment and equal opportunities for all its members, where people can find their place and happiness or at least peace... So far I'm unable to see the good that Maasai culture brings to their communities"
    Whaaat? Ok, I understand, you are just unable to see.

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    1. Anonymous8/25/2023 3:34 AM

      So you really mean a culture where women are children are oppressed, undergoing physical and emotional mutilation, is a positive example? As for who am I to judge, just a person with self-awareness and critical thinking that is not looking at things through any rose colored lenses... And my interest in this comes from an interest in women's issues - you can have compassion and understanding and still see reality for what it is.
      Not all of us feel drawn to have sex with the Maasai, me personally I still don't understand why any Western woman would want that... If they could just leave us alone it would be great. But unfortunately not going to happen soon...

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    2. Anonymous8/28/2023 1:33 AM

      No. I mean you are NOBODY to judge any culture. That's it. You want to set Masai culture as an example for what? For feminism it's sure not a good example 😁 but there is much to learn of in case of interest. As is with every culture. Masais are cold blooded and selfish, yes. They can behave and control themselves better than westerners, that's an example. They take, use and move on, it's always been like that, also with their own people. If you know this culture then you can describe it to warn someone from something and you don't have to deal with them at all, ignore! But you are noone to judge. Take a look at your own culture first for what is good there and what is polluting the whole world. You think you are better? No, you're different but also stupid. Masais are primitive and under influence of western capitalism. What do you expect? And why not have sex with them😃 if you can find your way out of the relationship. Many have worked it out too. That is if a primitive man with his indeginous culture is what you want. I can understand how it can be. For me it's just not enough, can't do without intellectual contact for long, although a short relationship sure is interesting. But what you need to know, anyone interacting with them is that they are poor and look at you as a chance to bring riches to their tribe. This is what moranis traditionally have to do. This is the traditional duty of morani age set, to get and bring riches for the whole community, not just himself. It's an example too, loyalty to your community.
      So if you not looking for building up business in the bush or taking him to Europe or sending money then better cut your romance short. Another thing is they are and will remain polygamist, they already have wives and children and will make more after you or with you if you can accept it. You will be one of many wives. Sadly most tourists don't know that because we know nothing about indeginous people. So first learn, then experience and if you feel you really understand anything, then maybe you can judge something but never any whole culture. And that goes for Masais too. Yes, you are all the same, yes, you want to use wazungu and yes, you are racist and stupid.

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    3. Anonymous8/28/2023 3:34 PM

      Wow, is this not beautiful ? :) What you were creating in your chicken brain ... "This is what moranis traditionally have to do. This is the traditional duty of morani age set, to get and bring riches for the whole community, not just himself. It's an example too, loyalty to your community." ... can really someone be stupid like this ? :) so you are trying to tell us here that maasais criminals who are stealing money, cheating others, making crimes, frauds and robberies are doing something good for the tribe and that's why we cannot judge them ? :) Because it's their traditional duty to bring riches for whole community ? :))))))) And it doesn't matter how and in which way they will get the riches ? So they can use all possible criminals way and their victims loosing all CAN'T JUDGE THEM FOR THAT ? :) just wow, what more to say. Only that human stupidity is limitless .. And you know what is good on my culture ? On my culture is good that CRIMINALS are sitting in the prison for their crimes - this is good on my culture. Maasais are never punished for their shits they are doing to others and this is exactly the reason why they will never stop. And racist? Yes, I AM ! The maasais themselves were teaching me how to be a racist. They showed me how terrible humans can be.

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    4. Anonymous8/29/2023 12:01 AM

      Breaking news, all cultures get judged, and some of them are objectively worse than others. I can also judge my own and see the flaws in it, but at least in my culture I have rights and a voice, unlike other women, and I can most definitely judge others - this has nothing to do with racism, nobody has something against these people because of the color of their skin, but because of their behavior.
      But there's no point in arguing with someone who has the critical thinking skills and horizon of a 10 yo child, so go ahead...
      And of course you can also have sex with them, no one is stopping you, just remember there's a lot of STDs, including AIDS, being passed around, and that they couldn't care less about women, in bed or outside of it. And be ready to also reward them for their efforts, after all they are so poor and expected to provide for their communities through any possible means.

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    5. Anonymous8/29/2023 3:27 AM

      You can go on whining like a broken record but it won't change anything. You think there is no scam in your country and all criminals are in jail? Oh you really must be naive. Maybe your country is now bombing Ukraine even and starting ww3? Sure it has military factory and producing so much waste the Masais can even not imagine being possible. But due to capitalist pressure they sure are degrading and moving there with all the plastic waste now also in their lands. You act the same as Masai, you blame others! It's always the easiest and most primitive attitude. You blame them and they blame you for being a capitalist, they take their revenge on you for harassing their culture by robbing your money, you both act primitive. Why Masai criminal is not in jail you should ask Tanzania government. Why a morani is welcome in their community after scamming muzungu money you should ask their elders. The whole world is dangerous, dear child, everywhere you should go prepared, educate yourself first and act smart and accept you were stupid to fall for scam but not judge any culture for your selfish failure. How do you think you judge it anyway? By whines here? Sorry, but you sound ridiculous. If you can't accept your loss then go after your criminal and make him pay. That's very much possible. Here women could share their experiences and organize to fight back, not whine how it's not possible, of course it is! Even now if you are smart and patient you can take the Masai to jail. And if women organize it will become more easy for each individual. You have Masai spying here so not possible to share names but most of these famous white Masais know all. They support the culture, but no wize person, also Masai, who really cares for the culture is happy about the criminal behavior, they all want to be respected, not like this criminal Masai spy here. They know that their culture can't survive if the criminal ways go on. Ofcaurse there are not much intelligent elders today also and the whole culture is in danger because of the stupidity. But you are also stupid to bring more hatred around and doing nothing smart, you make enemies of the only people who could help you, who really struggle every day to make things better. They avoid your kind and that's why you fail.

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    6. Anonymous8/29/2023 7:14 AM

      Please don't change topic for bombing Ukraine, making plastic mess... Maasais don't do any mess because they don't buy such a things. But look how they behave at Zanzibar, in moment they have plastic bottle of soda in hands, they don't hesitate to throw it to the forest, or just to place where they actually stay. Maasais don't make mess in the bush ACCIDENTALY, not with any intention to be ecologists :) they don't have anything to throw, that's why they don't do that ;) once they would have, you would see that mess everywhere around. I don't still understand why you protect them in this way, on one side you are saying all bad about them because obviously you know them and on other side, you are protecting them. It looks like you have problem with some bipolar disorder. I never told all criminals are in the jail around the world, but most of them in normal countries, they are in the jail and no money will help them. Is it possible to put maasais cheaters and thieves to the jail ? Really ? It would be fucking expensive and it would last only for few nights. After lets say one week maasai will be free again. And you will only loose your money. Because nobody is rich enough to pay enough. Behind Maasais is organisation, ERETO and not only ERETO, they also have local leaders, they collect money and they have more money you can imagine. For this money they will buy freedom to their criminals, you cannot overpay them. And about right to judge. Of course you can judge everyone you want to judge. To judge someone for something is not forbidden, it's not any crime and as someone told her already, this is not any racism. Because nobody cares about their skin colors. People judge them for their terrible behavior, for their terrible society which is protecting crimes and criminals. And of course people have FULL RIGHT to judge them. And if also someone else is doing crimes, for example some mzungus, some indians, some americans - this will not make crimes of maasais smaller ! This is blog about maasais beachboys, so don't put any other criminals around the world here. This is not the right place. This is blog which describes the tactics and behavior of maasais beachboys, also this blog is a tool how to WARN other people, how to tell them, what they can EXPECT from beachboys. Nothing is here like HATRED. We have personal experiences with these people and we have all the rights to warn others. If you know all and they cannot catch you, be happy - lucky you. But still it's good to warn those, who don't have any idea. Ashante.

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    7. Anonymous8/29/2023 10:14 AM

      What are you rambling about, I have nothing to do with Ukraine or Russia, you have gone so far besides the point it's funny and ridiculous... I also don't have hatred or romantic failures or whatever you called them. I just have a good understanding of their culture and frankly the more I know about it the less I like it. And I know about it because I have tried to help the women and children, I was involved in an education project and I have discovered and witnessed so many things that made me sick. You keep bringing up the pollution issue like that changes everything or makes up for all the abuse going on. You cannot change anything there because the culture is terrible and deeply corrupted, the ones who have the power only care about money. And there are smarter, more educated Maasai who agree on this. Also the first step to solve any problem is to admit you have it, not deflect and put the blame everywhere else but where it really belongs. I can see the issues in our Western culture, but that is not the object of this blog.
      So I know from experience and I have tried to do something, not just "whine" (which is also my right, to tell my truth as I see it from my experiences and my perspective). But if you really try to do something you will discover it's incredibly difficult, almost impossible, and you can also get into trouble because you are disturbing the "status quo". And good luck if they perceive you as a threat to their "peace" and "business", because they can really go very far into trying to make your life a mess. The culture is sick and I feel sorry for the people, but I have learned my lessons, and I will never understand how some women prefer to close their eyes and romanticise all the abuse going on.

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    8. Anonymous8/30/2023 1:23 AM

      So then ? Tell us , whom to blame.. Who is guilty for terrible maasai behavior ?? Me ? You ? Putin ? Who ? You told we are blaming here wrong side, so then whom to blame for their sick mentality, for their sick and spoiled souls ?

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  29. Anonymous8/25/2023 8:43 PM

    What is being said right now is that everyone should be very careful about this Zanzibar because it is not the good Zanzibar as it was in the beginning, the drugs are like food right now Zanzibar all kinds of evil right now here in Zanzibar all kinds of diseases because of the bitch they come from parts of Tanzania Kenya to UgandaEveryone should accept that Zanzibar is no longer as good as it used to be, there is no peace everywhere, hatred for no reason, Zanzibar today is not safe

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  30. Anonymous10/04/2023 9:31 PM

    Hey, my name is V and I got to know someone who introduced himself to me as Davido or lepapa. From other people I heard he has another name. He asked after we slept with each other the second time. He drinks and smokes, which already made me question a few things. He told me someone stole his sheep. Needed 100k for it apparently. Now he wants me to meet the family I feel so bad. I really want to trust but it's so hard in this world.

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    1. Anonymous10/07/2023 1:45 PM

      Enjoy the hell in maasai bush, but don't forget to take there all your money, you will need it. That's a reason why you are going there... to pay, for everything and for everyone. After that bye bye baby

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    2. Anonymous10/08/2023 1:34 AM

      Hallo, does anyone know a Maasai named Loconwa?
      I met him on the beach while I was walking. Thank you for this blog but I'm very shocked by what I read.

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    3. Anonymous10/08/2023 5:31 AM

      Sorry to say this, but I guess the guy is exactly one of those Maasais ,as you already recognised drinking alcohol is not allowed for morani. It showes already that he is not even taking care of his own culture.Davido is sure the name he is using on the beach. Maybe i know him, where did you met him ?Where is he coming from? And the Story with the sheep is 100% a big lie

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    4. Anonymous10/12/2023 3:04 PM

      I read your blog and was shocked. I behaved like a naive person. I was in Zanzibar on holiday, Matemwe area, and on the beach I met a Masai. Kind, shy, he never asked me anything. We started walking and then every day we met to walk together for a couple of hours.
      He asked me for my phone number. One day he asks me if I want to go to the beach with him in the evening but I say no.
      I really didn't think he could think about it. I'm a beautiful woman too, but I'm 50 and he's about 27. He apologizes and everything continues as if nothing had happened.
      He apologizes and we continue to see each other until the day of departure. For three months he wrote to me almost every day, says he loves me, and now he asks me to come back.

      He told me by chance that he had a brother and a sick mother, now he says that they stole his bag with his things to sell. I don't know what to think, he's not talking now because he says he's sad about this situation.
      I didn't really think it was a mzungu hunt, but reading the blog the situation is similar, even though I didn't have a relationship and didn't send him money.
      Evidently he told me that he is not married and that he doesn't like Zanzibar. It's very sad because sometimes I think he's sincere. what do you recommend me to do?

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    5. Anonymous10/14/2023 12:10 PM

      this is very common story, very common situation with scammers, very typical tactics, they all are using with white women :) important is SEX, then they feel like they have more control with that woman, so sex is needed, they will try all possible to fuck you. Second is the story, about sick members of his families, or about ROBERY, or about hitting child with motorcycle, in this way they will ask money... if nothing will still happen, they will start with SILENCE ;) from one day to other day. First they will try to make you sure that they love you because they will write each single day.. In silent punishment, they will suddenly stop :) This has to press the woman to make an action and mostly woman will do something, because she wants "old situation" with a lot of "I love you back" and this is called MANIPULATION... PURE STUPID MANIPULATION OF THOSE EVILS WHO ARE EVEN NOT PEOPLE.. NOBODY FROM THEM. So, what to recommend to you ? BLOCK THAT LOOSER IMMEDIATELY and NEVER EVER talk to him again. He is married, and he likes Zanzibar a lot :) Money everywhere, sex everywhere :) Why they would not like it ? ;) no hard job, just walk on the beach whole days and lie, manipulate and then fuck tourists and get a lot of money. That's today a life of maasai warrior ;) Before they were hunting the wild animals to protect their families... Today they hunt only white women to get passive income :) If you have a lot of money, then better send to me ;) I can also send you my bank account - no problem.

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    6. Anonymous10/24/2023 7:34 AM

      For the girl asking about the Lokonwa. This is a maasai family name. I know someone with the same family / name. But they have many names.

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    7. Anonymous10/27/2023 3:45 AM

      For the person who responded that he knows Lokonwa. He looks smaller but should be around 26 years old. He is a Maasai who calls himself Alleluyah, but his real name is Lokonwa Lule. He seemed like a good guy and we made friends, he sells things on the beach. I wanted to know if you knew something about him, I hope he's not one of those beach boys you reported.

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    8. Anonymous10/29/2023 3:24 PM

      they are ALL the same, it's one big mafia, on the beach. No single one exception. He is on the beach to catch mzungu and then to take her money and property. Easy like that.

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  31. Anonymous10/14/2023 1:44 PM

    Thank you for your reply. He called me and tells me I have to come back because he loves me. There was nothing between us. I told him no. but after all this time I have to admit that if I don't feel it I miss it. He doesn't ask me for money, he says it's his problem, not mine. Isn't it possible that he's sincere? I need your help to break away.

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    1. Anonymous10/15/2023 3:47 PM

      I am very sorry but NO. It isn't possible that he's sincere. It's really NOT POSSIBLE, I am sorry. It's a game. Some scammers have a tactics that they ask very soon, but never first day. Really NEVER. They will try to act like they don't need your money. This time - until when they will not ask - can be very different. Two weeks, two months... Depends only how patient who is. But the goal is still there. They are trying to build "relationship" with you, because THEY ARE SURE - ONCE you will pay. They don't have any doubts about that, they know it's only question of the time. So some of them are really very patient ;) He doesn't love you at all. To be honest, he even doesn't like you. You are near nobody for him, just wallet or future wallet but not human, not woman. They love their maasais little girls, they are all pedophiles, culture is teaching them this since early childhood. The LAST thing they really want is to fuck old woman. Old woman - it means for them more then 30 (for those who are 22) and more than 35 for those you are around 30 already. If you are 50 or more, you are completely grandmother for them and they are VERY ashamed to take you home and introduce you like the girlfriend. That's why they will never tell this to their families. You can't understand (good for you), if you would, it would be very painful. They will introduce you as a friend, just a tourist. They are very ashamed to date someone who is older than their mother. They are married children - imagine. Children around 15 - 16 are married with 25 - 30 years old men. Their habit is sexually touch children who are 10, many times they even don't have any breasts. Of course, they fuck also adult women but in hidden way. It's not allowed and it's very shameful. White woman is not any exception only because she is white ;) Grandmother is just grandmother, whatever color her skin has. You miss it because :) you are already manipulated by him. I think nobody will help you here, you should go to real psychologist and ask him about narcissistic abuse and about manipulation and manipulators, because this is what is going on there. Sorry. They don't like us and they don't need us in any way. All they need from us are our money. That's all.

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    2. Anonymous10/30/2023 9:39 AM

      OMG your description of their behavior with their own Maasai girls, children, made me sick! 😱😱😱😱
      I'm 22 and I went to Znz with a University project, I got chased a lot on the beach and at the parties, but I wasn't aware of all these schemes and issues with their culture (of course they all told me they are not married). I'm glad I didn't fall into the trap, but in a couple of weeks I will go back and after reading all this I feel so disgusted, I don't think I will be able to even talk to them, it's just so sick and gross. I have met some nicer ones that I thought were friends, but I don't know what to believe anymore, and I don't want to believe they are also pedophiles... 😱😱😱😱

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    3. Anonymous10/30/2023 6:55 PM

      yes of course, almost nobody new has an idea about maasais :) Everyone see only handsome, smiling friendly guys but nothing is far away from the reality. They all are the creatures who will never hesitate to hurt you in each possible way. Take your money somehow as much as possible and then kick your ass quickly. About the girls in the bush, yes, they are pedophiles, that culture is like that. If you will see "jumping" in the bush, you would vomit. This jumping is the traditional habit. Warriors (those you can meet at Zanzibar) in age between 18 - 30 (few of them can be younger or older, depends on in which age they started warriorhood what is decision of the father) so these boys are going to dance (just stupid jumping with terrible animals sounds) and they will put little girls inside of the circle. Then they are trying to "court" them in some very funny way (hard to describe). Those poor little girls between 8 and 12 are in the middle of circle and around are warriors. This jumping is happening often. In late evening, during the night. After it, warriors are going to the cottage to sleep with these little girl. Their theory is they only can touch however they want , but to fuck is not allowed. To be honest, I cannot imagine HORNY maasai warrior, who would resist if he would be NAKED with little maasai girl in the bed. I will never trust this theory. These little girls want to fuck, they can't wait until they will fuck. It's spoiled for us, normal for them. So... sexual attraction for warriors are not old women (+30), but just a girl. You are 22, so you are still somehow OK. But once you are more then 30, you are not interesting for them anymore. You don't need to believe anything, after reading blog you have already some knowledge ,just observe their behavior, if it will fit to description from the blog and you will see. If you have an idea - then it's very easy to see because they all are doing the same, as older boys were teaching them. You can count with it, the scenario is always the same. It's real "HOW TO" , something like heritage :)

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    4. Anonymous10/31/2023 11:35 AM

      Wow, just wow! This sounds incredibly sick and disturbing, how can the entire community allow such things to happen?! Why can't they have relationships (any kind of relationships) with women of their own age, wtf is wrong with them?! It makes me throw up just thinking about it...
      You know some of them were telling me about these Maasai "celebrations", but of course not mentioning the little girls.
      Well this effectively wipes out any interest I might have had in any of them, thank you for spreading the truth, I'm sure if more women knew about all this sickness they would not want to have anything to do with them.
      But on the other hand how can the white women living with them and knowing all this pretend they have such a beautiful culture?!

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    5. Anonymous11/02/2023 7:33 AM

      You can know all the details only when you are spending there longer time. At Zanzibar - you cannot see anything, because at Zanzibar they are not home, they are not in the bush, their behavior is different. In the bush also, if you are there for one week - lets say two weeks, they will prepare the theatre for you, they will not tell you any details because they know very well it could scare you before you will give them money. So you will not know, they will act and they will tell you ONLY what they want to tell you. Remember this very easy rule. They will tell you only WHAT YOU ARE ALLOWED TO KNOW. Nothing more. In 2 weeks they can act - once you are there 4 months, they will be very tired from that acting and they will stop to be careful. Now the question is how many tourists can be there living for 4 months. Almost nobody. 90 % of their victims are random tourists spending just 14 days in TZ or Zanzibar, that's it. These women are the best targets. With these women they can hold long term "relationship" and they can take a lot of money from they because these women don't know and cannot know. With blog the women can have at least an idea what's going on there. Maasais will not tell you about little girls, even not about their polygamy, about their children and wives. They know that THIS THING mzungu DOES NOT LIKE and she COULD run away. They will not tell you they are married already, they will not tell you they have children already, they will not tell you they are fucking ALL what will not run away including little girls, they will not tell you anything about mafia, anything about spoiled culture, anything about their dirty plans with you ;) Never ever the truth. That's why some women can believe it's beautiful culture. It's only a theatre.

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    6. Anonymous11/03/2023 2:07 AM

      I knew about polygamy and them marrying young and all that because I had researched a little, but the kind of (terrible) details you can learn on this blog no one talks about... So thank you again, I think it's also our responsibility to learn and be cautious.
      Of course when you ask them they all lie and say they aren't married, that polygamy is no longer allowed, beating and abusing their women is also not allowed and all sorts of bullshit like that. Also every one of them inviting virtual strangers to visit their homes in the bush, I guess it's for the theater and to make you pay for everything.
      But still I met white women living with them in the bush for like 7-8 years and claiming it's a beautiful life, this is what I don't get...

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    7. Anonymous11/03/2023 6:05 AM

      yes, exactly as you write. They will not tell you. If you know something, they will try to tell you, it's not allowed anymore. It's not truth, it's very allowed. To beat a woman is normal there, to treat a woman like a shit, is normal normal, to fuck around is normal there plus now it's normal there to use mzungu for money. It's very allowed and widely supported by whole the community. Once they have profit on it, all is allowed. For them is money a lot. And yes, all their effort to visit their bush - all is for the theatre. First of all, ONCE you are there, you will pay. If only 100 000 Tsh, always better than nothing. So, you will pay for all possible there. Mais, rice, sugar, tea, soap, sweets for children, goats, cows, you will pay. And second reason is that they will be able to manipulate you more through family members especially children. "Oh, sweetheart - you remember - that little girl who loves you so much - so she is now dying in the hospital, if I will not pay 5 millions shillings for her, she will die soon" or "my mother she misses you so much and she loves you so much, unfortunately she is so sick and her only worry is if she will see you once again, because she will die soon without medication which is somehow expensive and we don't have this money, oh God, my poor mother, all she wants is to see you again" ... I want to vomit. Always. So - the visit in the bush has exact meaning. And it has nothing to do with you. It's just for them, you are there for them. And if you know them already - then that theatre is disgusting. About the women living many years with maasais in the bush - to be honest I also don't get it in any way. how is this possible. And also that those women are able to talk about beautiful culture. How ? Are they blind ? or what. What can I understand is women who have a business there with maasais. Some women have travel agency, they are taking tourists for money to bush, of course these women can't say loudly how dirty and spoiled this culture is today. Because then nobody would go there. To support criminals. So of course, those women who have business with tourists or who has youtube channels about life in the bush have to be quiet. There is no chance that someone who is living there for many years doesn't know everything about that culture. There is no chance. You had to be completely blind, disable in the mind :) and really sick in the head - to believe it's beautiful culture. Like of course, you CAN definitely find there some things which are nice. For example they are trying to treat also disable people in nice way. Or when the woman can't be pregnant, she will stay in the family and nobody is mean to her (but of course the woman is always that one who is guilty for not having children - the man is never guilty, automatically a woman), but still you can find there nice things. But the shits you can see there on daily base are so cruel and just not fair, that whole the culture seems to be not that much beautiful and today it's even worse then ever before because the crimes they are doing with mzungus and whole community is ok with that is TOO MUCH. We can judge them , definitely yes. They are destroying lives of other people - nobody has that right to destroy a life of someone.

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    8. Anonymous11/03/2023 6:18 AM

      I don't want to be not fair or to judge the culture too much. Culture is culture and we can tell that we don't like something on it, or in it, but that's all, There is no moral right to judge the culture. But once the members of culture are doing crimes somewhere and they are organized. And the whole community supports them in doing crimes - this is different story then. It's not about judging the culture, it's about the judging the community where the criminals are heroes. Community where the criminals are not on the border of the society, but they are in the middle, widely respected ! This is something what we can judge. Beachboys at Zanzibar are putting this tribe down to the hell and it's only their responsibility, they can't blame anyone else, just themselves. They are fully responsible for the image and reputation of the maasai tribe and go to Zanzibar and look - how shameful maasais behave there. Ask locals what they think about maasais. Nobody hates them for no reason. They story behind is that local people are jealous with them because maasais have bigger success. This is what they will tell you but it's just only next lie. Nobody likes them because they are cheaters and thieves. And everyone living at Zanzibar know that. The only people who don't have any idea are poor tourists. ;( And they will know soon, all those tourists (especially women) who will be once in the contact with a maasai beachboy - she will know once how dirty that person is, because there is happy-end in very rare cases. So once they will know, but it's better to know before you will loose your own life . You will loose everything you have for someone who does not deserve anything good in this life. I am ok with a scenario that poor guy with bad destiny (to be born as a maasai in bush where your parents will not allow you to go to school and then in the adult age they will hardly press you to FIND money), it's just a bad destiny. Maasais themselves are doing bad destiny for their own children with that cultural habits and rules. So this I understand those poor guys are not guilty, situation they are in is not good at all, without education, possibility for job, without any abilities and skills, how they can FIND money ? Not easy. But then if they will meet a mzungu who will make their life just better - why they don't use this opportunity in nice way ? Why they can't be in love and in piece with that person. Why they have to lie, cheat, beat, rape, steal , why ? ;) This is what is not fair and where maasais can't use any apology. This their terrible behavior has no apology, even not in poverty.

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  32. Anonymous10/15/2023 8:56 PM

    Ok. Thank you for your sincere words.
    I had already written to you if you had any information. Also to warn other women. But those who cannot be manipulated do not fall for it. Unfortunately it's character and we need to try to change.

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    1. Anonymous10/15/2023 11:36 PM

      I think there are many warnings in this blog, it's enough. Who wants to be warned - will be. Who doesn't want - then nobody will help. With a healthy woman who knows her own value - a maasai would not have any chance ! Maybe for first 10 minutes ;) Because there are millions and millions of red flags which healthy women can read very quickly. Unfortunately today many women are injured. From the past. From the childhood or from past experiences with men. But mostly it has roots in childhood somewhere. If not this injuries then nobody would stay longer than 5 minutes with an idiot. And how many women are living with different losers for many many years not only with maasais. Just this is for sure, if you will see a woman with a maasai - you can be sure that woman is not OK. Nobody normal would ever accept and tolerate such a huge disrespect as these guys (all of them) are showing us. In normal population you can find also normal people who knows how to behave to others with love and respect. In maasai population - this is not possible. Because they are growing already in unrespect to women as children. That's why it's not possible to find anyone who is normal, who can be for you supportive and loving partner. All their kindness you can see in early beginning :) it's only an acting. The tool - the tactics - how to catch you , how to manipulate you, but soon or later they will change. In reality they will never change, they only will show you who they really are and it will be not nice for sure. That's why is better to run as soon as possible, because still - the relationship with a maasai can't have any future in any case. Mostly what is holding us in each relationship is a HOPE, that it will have a sense or.. the hope that person will stop with bad behavior in time. With maasais this hope doesn't exist at all. It will be only worse and worse each single day - but never ever better.

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  33. Anonymous10/17/2023 11:52 AM

    You are right. Many women, and I am one of them, have a past with wounds that date back to childhood, in my case. Thank you for your words, they will give me the push to heal.

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    1. Anonymous10/31/2023 4:38 AM

      Lesoit, kiwengwa, Neptun pwani.....I walked in that trap...was my first time in Sansibar.......

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    2. Anonymous12/25/2023 2:17 AM

      Do you know the name of the Masai?

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  34. Anonymous12/21/2023 2:26 PM

    Be careful of these two Masais! One's name is William Sipilali. He says he's not married. lie!!! It turns out that he is married after all and has two children. The other Masai on the beach calls himself Ole, but is called Issaki Moleli or Samweli Molel. Both have Facebook accounts under their names (if you want to see pictures). Both are hanging out on the beach at Pwani Mchangani, between the hotels LUX Marijani and Neptune Pwani Beach Hotel. Unfortunately, I fell into a trap with the latter because, in contrast to the other Maasai people on the beach, he was a nice and lovable man. Unfortunately I noticed it far too late. He is also a liar and a cheat. Be careful and don't believe a word they say, like all beach boys. Unfortunately 😱

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    1. Anonymous12/24/2023 7:49 PM

      All from the beach are married already and having children :) you can be almost sure about it. No doubts. No happy-end with maasai beachboy :) Never ever.

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    2. Anonymous4/17/2024 12:26 PM

      Do you know a masai called Daniel? From Neptune too? Very tall?

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    3. Anonymous4/17/2024 4:16 PM

      Why are you asking about name ? Daniel or not Daniel, tall or not tall, maasais are all the same scammers, no difference. Name is nothing. Read the blog instead and keep distance from them, otherwise you will cry

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  35. Anonymous1/11/2024 12:15 AM

    Please do you know massai PHILIPO from Nungwi working beside Royal Zanzibar Hotel? Someone have experience with him?

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  36. Anonymous2/03/2024 8:03 AM

    Does anyone know a young guy, calling himself Alleluyah July, around 29, has a shop at Kendwa with 2 more people (one being called fake name Marco) also walks on the same beach...
    Regards

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  37. Anonymous2/03/2024 2:42 PM

    Actually, I think name July is spelled Njulai

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  38. Anonymous2/19/2024 5:39 AM

    Does anyone here know a Masai guy named Loibukoo (also goes by Kuba), he mostly spends his time in Kendwa?

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  39. Anonymous2/19/2024 12:02 PM

    Does anyone know a Masai guy named Loibukoo (goes by Kuba also) from Kendwa?

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  40. Anonymous2/28/2024 1:45 AM

    Ich war zweimal auf ZanzĂ­bar und es ist immer das Gleiche.Am Anfang sehr charmant ,aber es kommt der Tag wo gejammert wird.Wie schon beschrieben kranke Familie,Unfall,nichts zu essen ,Job verloren,schlafen am Strand uvm.Glaubt keinem Beachboy,auch keinem Securty Massai.
    Ich werde nicht mehr nach Zanzíbar fliegen,es ist dort wirklich sehr schön,aber die Beachboys verderben vieles.Man darf den meisten nichts glauben.
    Sie haben unser MitgefĂŒhl nicht verdient.Meine nĂ€chste Reise fĂŒhrt mich in den OMAN.Dort wird man nicht belĂ€stigt.War vor einigen Jahren dort,wunderschöne StĂ€dte,traumhafte StrĂ€nde,zurĂŒckhaltende Menschen uvm.
    Aber ich sehe trotz der Erfahrungen auf ZanzĂ­bar und anderen LĂ€ndern positiv.Aber vergebt auf keinen Fall Euer Herz und Euer Geld.

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  41. Anonymous4/02/2024 8:02 AM

    Kennt jemand erikanza (Blessing) aus nungwi oder kiwengwa?

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  42. Anonymous4/04/2024 6:54 AM

    I can tell you that even if you meet a different kind of man, not these lying cheating beach boys, it's still extremely difficult to make things work because of all the cultural differences... Most of them don't have any education, are very poor, and will rely on you for everything. Soon you will be supporting entire families and the whole village because life is truly very difficult in the bush to a level a normal European person cannot imagine. There is a lot of stress and weight to try to help all the time, to be misunderstood a lot of times because of the differences, to just deal with everything. And this is without all the lies and cheating, it's just the way things are.
    But people who live in survival mode all the time, where you don't even have your most basic needs met, they have a different mindset and even brain chemistry. So when they discover some easy ways to make a lot of money, they will do that without thinking about anything else, and it will be impossible to make them stop in most cases...
    It's really sad and heartbreaking, but be prepared to deal with this if you get in the game.

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