Maasai beachboys are looking for more comfortable and more easy life for them and for their families. Until here, everything is fine and all normal people honestly wish them to find better life, to live in better conditions, to enjoy more things and more often. Nothing for being surprised because EVERYONE ON THE EARTH IS TRYING DO THE SAME - TO FIND AND TO LIVE BETTER LIFE. It's natural behavior, so who could judge them for that? No-one can.
Then, what's wrong with these guys?
To use another human being to gain benefits for yourself only is not any nice thing. Despite that, we can partly understand it. We already know some details about life in the bush. We already described a lot of things out there. We can understand, members of some tribes themselves ARE THE VICTIMS OF OWN CULTURE. Therefore, we should not judge them with the cruelty and without attention to the existing circumstances.
They really don't have all those possibilities which most of people from Western World have. Only some of them could study, only some of them can have success in carrier and having normal job. They also never learn any craft!!!! But why? Have you ever seen for example Maasai does manual labor, use the hands he has received from the God to earn money? Are they not allowed use the hands, or they just don't want to work like others? They don't use their hands, they believe they don't need to work. Most of people in the world use own hands to make money. Why people from Maasais culture are those who don't have to work? They just don't work and at the same time they complain that they don't have money. How funny.
What can they do to reach better life ? Without usage of hands and without using the brain, not many possibilities remain.
There remain 3 ways for them how to get more money. To find the white woman on the beach of Zanzibar, to win in the lottery or to get big heritage. No other ways. Lottery - they were never participating in any. Heritage - not easy because they have big families and a lot of children. So what still remains ? TO FIND A RICH WOMAN FROM ABROAD ! Rich swahili woman would never date a maasai :)
But to find a woman for having better life is not bad itself. Because they are facing a lot of limits from the culture and from the way of their thinking, we can understand they don't have many possibilities. What is the worst is that way which they proceed. How they abuse love and feelings, how they destroy the trust which is given to them. This is a problem for us.
If they don't have any other choice, they could use white women in the way of humanity. In honest way.
They could respect (if not love) those, who are trying to help them. They could be honest and straight to those who love them. They could try to adapt different way of life and different behavior. They could start to giving back, what they got. They could stop to cheat and to count their advantages. They could stop make concrete plans how to lie to someone, how to get money in dirty way and how to destroy someone's life. And especially they could stop to hurt other people in the most terrible way, abusing the love. Then, WE WOULD NEVER COMPLAIN about these people from Maasai tribe, BUT....
Beachboys don't need any humanity. They don't feel any empathy for you, that's why they are able to hurt you a lot ! They don't know how you feel and also if they would know, they don't care. They are not interested in it. The money is all what they want and need. Each second of their life they are ready to sacrifice you. Their world is very limited. In the reality they don't want even to live with white woman. They want life in the middle of bush, exactly as they know it, exactly as they lived it from the birth until today. Men are the Gods in Maasai culture - those who are always right (also when they are not), nobody can complain, nobody can judge them, nobody can even punish them for being wrong. What's a beautiful life, life of the King. Who wouldn't like it. In Europe, this would never happen to them. To be respected for no reason, only for being men. To be a man is easy. You will be born like that. There is no any own effort in this, really no reason to be respected for that only. That's why NOBODY WILL CHANGE THE MIND OF THE MAASAI MAN.
In the fact, all what beachboys are doing is against humanity (in each case and for each cost), it's all against love, all against trust, while ignoring the consequences follow their behavior and follow their actions, what is not fair.
LOVE: While you love them, they don't love you. This is the single rule. They will send you messages, which they didn't write or which they cannot understand. All the words about the love are fake. They are only copying what someone already used with success. Beachboys will never give you love. They even cannot understand your love to them. For them your feelings to them mean your weakness. Their are completely lost in this topic. They can only lie about love to you and they are doing that.
TRUST: They will never give you any trust - they will NEVER trust you. And reason WHY is easy to understand. Because they themselves are liars and cheaters, always thinking by the way of the frauds. Therefore, they will always judge us according to themselves. "I judge you on behalf of me" - this single rule cannot be broken in world of liars, cheaters and criminals.
RESPECT: Maasai beachboys look at you from top. They will never respect you and why? Just because you are woman, first of all, and second reason, you are white, and third reason - you are stupid for them. More better heart you have - more stupid you are in their eyes. They are sure that mzungus are really silly, with brains of chicken. All of them. And to be honest - they have real reason to think like that. Unfortunately. They don't take us as humans. White woman is here for paying for their life. So about respect from beachboys, we only can dream :) They know they will never respect you from very first second. Stupid and cruel game.
GIVING: They will never give you anything. Just a few little things in the very beginning, which is part of their hunting tactics. Beachboys are only TAKING. They are never GIVING. Whatever you will give them, they will never give you back. After they will take you all what you have, they will leave you from one evening until next morning without any feeling of sorry. They are always ready to sacrifice you for someone who will give them more than you. Each second of life, they are ready to use their opportunity.
TRUE: Instead of telling truth to those who love them, they will use lies every day and in everything. Only lies with goal to manipulate you. But the truth you will hear in very rare cases. They only will tell you what you need to know but nothing else.
LOYALITY: They will cheat on you in each opportunity they will get. With Maasais women, with swahili women, with other mzungus. They know it from beginning, they know they are polygamic and also very promiscuous for whole the life, but they will never tell you about that. We could excuse cheating if someone will fall in love with two people at same time. But Maasais beachboys are cheating on women not because of love but because of having fun or getting more money.
GOOD INTENTION: In life of beachboy, to think about fraud is daily routine. They are going to sleep with ideas about new frauds, and they are waking up keeping the frauds in their mind. You will play main role in their frauds each single day. They will think daily how they can get more money from you.
As long as you are willing to give them money whenever they ask, they will maybe not rob you in visible way. They will not risk their personal wallet, which still works well. The problem will come when you don't want to give them money anymore. They'll rob you and they'll be gone in the morning. When everything is over, they will return. Without shame and with the same love story. And they will really not understand why are you complaining :) You had money, they don't have, so they took it. Everything is ok.
KIDNESS: If you will be really bad girl, you will be not willing to give them money, you will complain about their behavior or you will find their lies and frauds, they will start to be violent. They will hit you, punish you and in many cases women ended in hospital, beaten until blood by their unsatisfied lovers. To use power of man to beat woman who is weaker, is a proof of a coward. And these men are biggest cowards. It's a question of time when everyone in relationship with them will feel it. What a shame for a man to be a coward. But they use to beat women at home, for them it's normal.
FREEDOM: Beachboys will not give you any freedom. But on other side, they expected all possible freedom for themselves. Not fair at all. For beachboy - the women is only property, he has all right to own. You are nothing more just a piece of the meat which belongs to them. They will try to own you completely and they see it to be ok. But in the same moment you must not have any claims on them. If you will have, they will be angry with you. What a hypocrisy, isn't it?
As you can see, beachboys are not playing with us any FAIR PLAY. If there would be at least some balance, maybe we could be strong and accept it. But there is no balance at all. It's dirty game they are playing with us and nobody deserves such a terrible life as we have with beachboys. Don't accept it anymore ! Stop them and find the man who is respectful, who will love you and not your money. Don't look for him in the environment of beaches in Zanzibar. You will not find him there.
Beachboys are mean, cruel, bad, selfish and egocentric people and they don't have any good intentions with you, what they know from first second they met you on the beach. Only one who doesn't know about that is just you. Open your eyes finally and do not live in self-deception and illusion anymore. Take your happiness firmly into your own hands again.
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