THINKING OF THE BEACHBOYS - HOW THEY SEE YOU AND HOW THEY SEE THEMSELVES

In this article we will collect all the thoughts in which beachboys (and unfortunately not only them) believe:

1. WHITE WOMAN IS COMING TO ZANZIBAR FOR SEX ONLY

Especially for sex just with them :) This is very common thought which beachboys honestly believe and they don't have any doubts about it. In here we also can see the hypocrisy of the  beachboys. On one side, when you complain in front of them about behavior of prostitutes from the beach, they will immediately start to protect themselves telling you, people are different and not all are the same. On other side, they are pretty sure that ALL WHITE WOMEN are coming to Zanzibar only with one goal - to fuck with them. No single one exception in their eyes, the answer of the question why white women are there is clear - they want to fuck with them because they are so special and unique :) So, Maasais are different they are not all the same, but white women, they are all the same. Pure hypocrisy.

However, beachboys are those who beg for sex and they never accept any "no" from you. Never. They are able to beg you for hours and hours, for weeks, months, even years. Each your "no, thank you" will stop them maybe for 10 minutes. After that they will start beg again. Again and again. Until you will be really tired of them or they will find you in weak moment. 

If you have husband, boyfriend or you are dating with their friends, they don't care. It's for them even better. They only need money from you so if you are not single, they can have control you through  threats. They are very selfish in the way of getting mzungu. They are able to steal white woman from their best friends. They need to have sex with you for each costs, to get control. Maasais beachboys are pressing women to have sex with them. But not because they want sex exactly with you (they have enough a lot of sex in bush, or with local girls for money). So, they don't need you for that. They need it because they believe through the sex they will get you. They believe in this and that's why they are pressing you a lot. But their story is always the same that you are that one who wants to have sex with them :) That's why they need to press you and to beg. Logical, isn't it ?

Their self-confidence in the bed is extra-ordinary as their self-confidence in everything else. They see themselves to be talented for everything :) Also when there is no talent at all. They always have self-confidence for no reason. In many cases nothing special and nothing great. But they don't know about that. They are sure they are the best lovers for mzungu in the bed and this illusion many of them are still living in. But reality is different. These people are doing sex like animals, without any feelings and without any personal connection. What Maasais are doing in the bed can't be define as "good sex". Not for normal woman who respects herself. 

The way itself how they are begging you for sex is disgusting, extremely bothering and it is not worthy of a man. Of course, Maasai  beachboys are not any men, but spoiled small silly children. MAN would never be a beachboy, for no money in the universe. The real man would never humiliate himself like that.

          

2. WHITE WOMAN IS EXTRAORDINARY STUPID

This is also something, they never have any doubts about. If you have Nobel price for Chemistry or you are a doctor, a scientist, for them you are only stupid one and you will stay stupid forever. The way how they look at you from the top, without any respect, is terrible (of course you will see this only after stage of love bombing, when they will stop to act). You can see this when you will think more about lies which they use with you. They don't even try to make really perfect lies, they will tell you every absurdity which they will find in their limited brain in one second. They believe they don't need to think too much how to lie to you because you are not smart enough, that you will trust them, eat all of their lies and you will never see the truth, even not if it would be really visible directly in front of your eyes. They are not focused on details, they don't believe you are that one who could just see something and connect it for knowing about reality. If you will find the truth and you will tell them that you know, they are always surprised and shocked. And the only thing you will hear from them is:  "WHO TOLD YOU THAT"? They don't count with the possibility, you could understand alone, without anyone to telling you. In their eyes, you are only stupid creature, without brain and they are always counting with that. That's why their lies are so absurd and unconceived. 

They will never believe that someone with the brain of the chicken could find the truth alone. They count with the fact, you don't have any brain, as any woman doesn't have. If you don't have any brain so how you could know. If you will observe something and you will make your own conclusion about that, they will always think, someone told you and they will try to find him and punish him.

Many women feel sorry for the beachboys, because they heard many  stories about a hard life, devoid of all the benefits of civilization.  And even without being in a sexual relationship, they  help the beachboys with money. Just for feeling sorry. But remember one thing. Maasai beachboy will never feel any sorry for you. Just never. White women help them mostly financially. White woman believes that to show generosity from her kindness and from a small surplus, and to help those in need is good and it corresponds to European values.  However, the beachboys grew up in a different culture and with different values, that's why they honestly believe if you will  give them money you have to be STUPID. They would never give any money to someone else. They do not understand compassion and empathy. That's why more money you will give them, more stupid you will be in their eyes and less respect they will feel to you.

3. WHITE WOMAN IS ALWAYS RICH 

All beachboys have been well versed in European countries for a long time.  As soon as a beachboy flies to one of these countries, others  immediately know that this is a rich country and how much money the beachboy has received, what kind of house he is building, how many Maasai wives he has bought.  

But a special hunt is for women from Germany and Switzerland, the beachboys know that these are very rich countries and the latest fashion is to look for wives in these countries. 

Also if you are from the other country, they will never trust you that you are poor. Until you are able to fly to Zanzibar, you still have enough money you could give to them. Don't forget, they don't need your company at all, all what they need is your money, you also can just stay home forever, but sending money to them each time they will ask. And they WILL ASK. :) Until you will be nice in sending money, they don't need to see you. Never again.

They don't feel any sorry for taking your money because they believe your money is justice for them from the God. You are rich and they are poor. Of course, you are rich without any effort, just you were born like rich and they are poor also accidently, because they are doing so much , they study a lot, they are learning a lot of crafts, they are working hard for many years, and still they are poor. :) This is the biggest mistake, they always believe, they are just victims of others. If they are victims than only victims of their own culture which doesn't allow people to grow. 

4. WHITE WOMAN WILL NEVER COMPLAIN OR SHARE HER BAD EXPERIENCES

From where is this belief, nobody knows. But they are sure about that. That's why they are brave enough to do each crime on white woman. They don't really think, that you could complain, you could tell to someone or you could go to police. If you will do that, you will complain about the crimes he was doing, he will be VERY ANGRY. Not because he is a criminal and because he did a crime. But because you are talking about that loudly. You cannot do that  and you don't have any right to find the justice for you and the punishment for him. They have a lot of groups, about white women, where they share all details, also naked pictures of you but if white women have group, they are angry. They are those who only can have group and who only can share the gossips, stories, and who can complain loudly. Other people - no. Other people, especially women, have to be just quiet in every situation. Also when they will steal your money, you have to be just quiet. They don't like you to speak. :) They don't want. And that's why you need to respect their wishes and just you need to be quiet. They believe they are middle of the universe. Yes, they are, but only the middle of their own tiny little very limited universe. 

5. THEY ARE VICTIMS 

Next common belief. Nobody likes them but for no reason, because they are such a great a peaceful people. They never lie, never steal anything, they never make any frauds, never cheat on you or on anyone else and that's why they really cannot understand WHY other people don't like them. 

Local Swahili people don't like them. Not fair. People from Zanzibar don't like them. Not fair. White people (especially those with real experience with them) don't like them and they never did anything bad. How sad to be victims, poor maasais beachboys. Once again, the pure illusion which they want to believe, but it's far away from reality. The people don't like them for their terrible behavior. For the way how they use other people. For their superiority above others. For the crimes which they are planning each single day. How to cheat on others. They think, they can do crimes and nobody will know. But of course, EVERYONE knows and that's why those who are living next to them don't like them. There is no racism inside of this story. It's all about ACTION => REACTION pattern. If they will not stop with crimes and frauds, people will not like them. EASY. They can decide how to live and which kind of people they want to be. Beachboys already decided. Easy money is more for them than respect and reputation. But it's their own decision. They just always blame the others, but they never blame themselves. Never. Everyone is responsible for their bad life, only they are playing no role in that.

6. THEY ARE SPECIAL AND FAMOUS       

They believe that they are special, famous and unique, with good reputation in the world. This was just past years and years ago. But not anymore. They still believe in a beautiful culture. Unfortunately it's not easy to see any beauty in there. They are more famous than other tribes because of very visible clothes and hair style, but with bigger visibility should come also bigger responsibility for image of the tribe in the world. 

But maasais beachboys don't care about image. Instead of making good reputation and living good and honest life, they are doing frauds and crimes, without any personal or communal responsibility. They don't feel any sorry for that. But then they need to take own part of responsibility for the image of maasai tribe in the world. They are those who are shame for maasai tribe, nobody else.

If those normal Maasais want to blame someone - then they should blame Maasais beachboys who are doing many bad things at Zanzibar.

7. THEY ARE TALENTED AND SKILLED

Big self-confidence is a nice thing, but ONLY if there is a reason for it. They are not super skilled and they are not talented. To be able to shake the shoulders is not any talent. To be honest. We never saw any kind of talent in between them. Some of them are good in football but especially on the beach. In real team they would be lost. Some of them are good in foreign languages but for Maasais to change a language is not a big issue because they are polyglots from the early childhood (using two languages each day Swahili and local maasai language Maa). But they have really belief, they are talented persons, more talented than others. If you will ask them why and where is their talent, they will stay quiet. They only have this belief, it's like a mantra but nothing behind.

8. GOD EXISTS AND HE LOVES ONLY MAASAIS

They believe in the God. At least this is what they will tell you. But after what we can see it's really difficult to think, they honestly believe in the God. Because they are fearless. They are doing so many bad things, not only to white women, also inside of own culture. They don't behave like the people of the God. If God would exist, he would punish many of them immediately. But nothing is happening, no punishment, the biggest criminals are living as rich men there without any problems, any issues and then they will have more and more courage to continue in frauds and crimes, without any  punishment and out of the eyes of God.

They feel to be chosen and they feel like those who have privileges from the God because God loves them. In the reality they are not chosen and have no privileges from the God and therefore they should behave the same as everyone else. They should work and produce something. Not only for themselves, but also for the others. They should participate in the running of the entire society. Like others. But for that they have to understand they are not chosen! They are normal mortals to whom all earthly rules and laws apply and nobody will work for them.

We believe that KARMA is here for them and once they will pay for all bad, they did to other people, once they will pay for all those destroyed lives, for all the pain they caused. If God exists. If not, evil will win and they will survive all the crimes without any punishment. Let's believe God is there, in the Maasai bush and once he will punish all those who are responsible for the tears of others.