WHAT'S WRONG WITH MAASAIS

We know already a lot about Maasais and about Maasai culture. Many details, many things which can put Maasais in the bad light or in the good light. Nothing is black and white in this universe and everywhere you can see many colors and many of their shades. 

Someone could think that we are racists who don't like Maasais, but it isn't truth. We only are speaking here about the facts and about reality which is not that pink as influencers earning money on Maasais are trying to describe. All we want at this place is to warn women who don't know anything about Maasais. Everything written here is only reality at Zanzibar and in Maasai bush. There is no lie in this blog because here is not a reason to lie. Can simple truth be something bad? Only in the world of criminals, where the truth must be silenced at all costs. We don't have any reason to hate Maasais and that culture because fortunately we are out of that hell already. But we have many reasons to warn others. If nothing else, then own conscience. When you witness something bad committed by a certain group of people every day and you keep silent about it, you automatically become an accomplice of these criminals. And when you additionally cover up their crimes, protect them and actively help them to create a false image of them, you automatically become a criminal,  the exactly same as they are. Those who are doing that are putting other people, those who don't know, to the big danger. Without any personal responsibility. 

People don't like Maasais beachboys not because of their skin color but for their behavior which is for some reason always the same. So yes, that's true, we don't like those criminals who are doing crimes on others and who are never punished for it. Easy like that! But WHO would like them ? Who likes criminals? Nobody except of same criminals. There is nothing more behind. Maasai beachboys are stealing our money in the way of manipulation, frauds and lies, money we had to work hard to collect it for long time. We didn't get money for free, this is simply not truth that white people have money for free from the heaven ! We had to work to have it, sacrificing our  personal freedom for weeks, months and years. Maasai beachboys are destroying our lives we were building whole the life and our families, we loved. We never asked them to hurt us, to manipulate us with lies and still they are doing that! And that's why WE HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO PROTECT OURSELVES. And we will do it here at this place ! Who wants to be warned - can find enough information here. Who doesn't want to be warned - it's easy to continue in the relationship with a Maasai. All what is needed is money. You have money - you can have "relationship" with these people. If you don't have, all will be quickly gone. And with each dollar from mzungu, that community will be worse and worse each single day, able do everything possible for money. They will be more and more greedy each day. And there will be nothing left in the bush from original Maasais who were living in the past. And white people, especially white women, are playing an important part on decline of Maasais.

Someone told that "THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO FOR A TANGO!" . Yes, of course, two are needed for a tango but then both of those two HAVE TO KNOW that it's tango and not ballet !!!! And this is exactly what is not happening with Maasais. They know it's a tango but you  don't know anything. We are lost in that dance not knowing what we are dancing with them, what is not fair. We feel a need to inform all the women that it's a tango and not ballet :) Then every woman can decide if she wants to dance.

Many of us fell in love with Tanzania and Zanzibar. Many of us fell in love with Maasais. Many of us helped Maasais people as much as possible. We have already given them a lot in the faith we are doing something beautiful and worth. AND WHAT WE GOT ACTUALLY BACK ? Frauds, lies, usage, violence, threats, robberies, rapes and cheatings. We got  back the abuse of our love and trust ! So why we decided to write this blog ? Not because we want to judge Maasai culture but because IT WAS JUST ENOUGH ALREADY ! We want to save other women from the traps which beachboys planned and prepared for us in advance ! Is it fair, isn't it ? God understands because God is that one who can see all. God can see them and their intention from inside.

We will not write anything here about the culture what is not necessary to know for fully understanding the situation of the white woman next to a Maasai. All we wrote here about the Maasai culture is only something what is directly connected to behavior of these people we have to face. For example How they treat their own women in the bush. Every woman who is thinking about the relationship with a Maasai should know these information from the cultural perspective. Because one day it will be also her story how she will be threated. It's important information and it's closely related to our issue. 

We are not interested in life of Maasais, we are honestly happy we are not part of it. But we need to explain why the behavior of the certain group of people is exactly the same. And that's why the details about that culture are necessary. Without some knowledge about that tribe is not possible to understand anything and therefore is not even possible to protect ourselves by keeping a distance from those people.

Maasais are tiny and closed community with exact rules for everything. The strong culture doesn't give any space for an individual to grow up in own way. The culture is forming these people from early childhood, having a BIG INFLUENCE on their thinking, feelings and behavior. That's why they are not different, they are the same, because first of all - they are the Maasais and they will stay to be Maasais forever. Only very few people are strong enough to run away from that culture and to live life by his/her own. That culture means for them the safety and importance. Which everyone needs. Inside of the culture they will not grow up into individuals with different thinking and feelings. All is predict in advance. All patterns of behavior are a dictate.  

Behind all they are individuals with different temperament, but thez are very pressed by that culture. All what you will see when you will know them better is that they are Maasais first of all. This is the reason why it's not possible to find ONE SINGLE exception among them. Educated or not, jobless or not. Poor or rich, ugly or handsome, young or older. No difference. They are different only in temper. Some of them are more kind, some of them are more violent and abusive. But the thinking behind all the physical is always the same. Their ability to feel the empathy to white people is always the same. Their privileged position above all the women is the same. Not from random reasons, but because the culture is forming them. It's easy. If that culture is bad or good, who knows. But what everyone can easily understand is the way how strong culture in very tiny community can form all the members. THAT CULTURE IS DOING FROM MAASAIS ONE MAN. AND THAT CULTURE IS SOMETHING WHAT OTHER BEACHBOYS DON'T HAVE BEHIND AND THAT STRONG COMMUNITY IS THE REASON WHY MAASAIS BEACHBOYS ARE DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS YOU CAN MEET ON THE BEACH. Someone can try to protect Maasais that beachboys are only very few people living at Zanzibar in comparison to whole Maasai community. Yes, it's true. But also is true that other people at home are supporting all that. Each crime they are doing on mzungu. 

Maasai beachboys are honestly not the biggest problem. If Maasais from mainland would want - they would solve everything with their beachboys just today. Without any police, without any mzungus, without any blog, without anyone. They have that power. The biggest problem is that REST OF MAASAI COMUNITY doesn't care. They don't care that beachboys are stealing money from mzungus. They don't complain about it. They don't punish them for it in any way !  They even don't tell them anything. They don't please them to stop. They don't react because they need that dirty money from those guys. This is the biggest problem, that criminals are widely supported by own family members (by fathers, sisters, mothers, wives) and with whole the community. If not this - it would be no problem with Maasais at Zanzibar at all. Maasais are well organized , they have exact rules and they have to respect each other. They have to, if they want or not, it doesn't matter. They have to. Once the elders would decide to stop maasais criminals at Zanzibar - it would happen quickly. The problem is that Maasai elders don't want to solve this problem at Zanzibar because elders need money from beacbboys. Often is their only income they can get from their sons. And if it is dirty money ? Really nobody in the whole maasai community cares how much dirty that money is. The main thing is that money are going to Boma. They don't want to see deeper into it. They don't ask. Money is at home, it's most important and it's enough. 

What beachboys are exactly doing - we have already described here. Anyone who will read this blog carefully with all the trust in our good intention - will never fall in their trap anymore. MISSION COMPLETED. 

But next problem still remains. Some women can be saved thanks to this blog but what about those who will never read the blog ? Still many women will never find this place and if yes, many maybe will not believe what's written inside here. We already wrote about the solution and it looks like it's only solution.

The only people who can change this, the only people who can stop criminals from the maasai tribe to continue, the only people who can give back all the respect which maasai culture had in the past are maasais themselves. Nobody else can ever do it. 

Maasais have the power in the own tribe. The elders. In maasai tribe there is exact hierarchy. The elders have the power to decide, to set the law, to press others to follow the rules. Everyone needs to respect them and to obey. It means - all is in their hands only. The reputation of maasais is in their hands. Beachboys are ruining face of the tribe each single day more and more and for people who like maasais it's very painful to look at this. 

We know some (very few) good Maasais (you will hardly find them on the beach) but what we really don't understand is, how and why they can look on that fate of their own tribe and do nothing about it! 

The blog exists already for longer time and it's visible that the people destroying reputation and image of the tribe are not so many. Maybe 20. Maybe 50. And maybe 100. But it's still nothing in the comparison with whole the maasai population in Tanzania. So WHY THEN nobody can stop few losers. Why nobody can catch them and threw them out of Zanzibar ! In this easy way also those who would like to follow criminals would stop ! But no, nothing like this is still happening. Many maasais meetings are on regular base in each village (Kiwengwa, Pwani Mchangani, in Paje, in Nungwi...) but with no results. Young maasais are still drunk, smoking, walking the beaches and HUNTING white women there! What they are doing is nothing else than real HUNT on PEOPLE! Terrible... And new generation is coming each year. The biggest beachboys are owning guesthouses in the bush, buying new cows, building new houses for dirty money and nobody in the bush cares ! After few years those most successful criminals will disappear from the beaches, they come back to the bush with stolen money or they are in Europe in fake relationships with poor white women who don't know anything. 

When blog started - some of educated Maasais were promising us the cooperation and help. They promised that they will send all the biggest criminals back to homeland. Nothing ! Nothing has happened until now and the cheaters and thieves are just still doing their job. So we asked here once again, who will save us and our money ? Who will protect us from the manipulation and lies ? Elders in maasai tribe? Probably not. Government of Tanzania or Zanzibar? Probably not. God ? Probably not. It looks like only we can. We have to do it. And we will