Maasais beachboys are first of all especially maasais. Maasai culture, maasai savannah and maasai life style - these are the things which mean sense of their life. To be a man in the maasai tribe is the win. Man is there always superior to a woman. For decades already. From the beginning. It's a tradition, it's a habit. It's the reality they are living in.
No maasai men would never wear shoes of a maasai woman. Try to ask them what is better in the tribe - to be a woman, or to be a man. The answer will be always the same. It's because the life of woman in maasai tribe is very difficult. The woman is working hard from early age whole days long. The woman doesn't have the same rights as a man. The woman doesn't have any freedom. The woman needs to obey a man and the man has all the rights to punish her, to decide about her, about her property and about her days, in many cases also about her future. So the men in maasai tribe feel to be more stronger and more superior than women. They are those who have power above women and they are those who are responsible for collecting of properties, for ensurance of family. THIS IS THE MAIN ROLE OF A MAASAI MAN IN THE TRIBE. This is a role, where they can feel to be proud of being men. Today it's the only role, because nowadays is not needed to protect family in front of other tribes or danger attacks of wild animals.
The difficulties to feel the respect to a woman is not the only reason why Maasais can't love us. The second reason - but important one is a feeling of the humiliation in front of us. We can't forget that maasai men have a big trouble with their own ego. They take things very personally, they are offended whole the time for smallest things you will ever tell them. They can't survive the feeling that woman can be more successful and able to take care about whole the family in way of money. Then the only role worthy of a man would be in the danger. This is the main reason why they never can love us, especially not in long term relationship. They know they are weak and they know it always when they see you. Always when you will send them money. More you will give them - more they will hate you. With each your shilling they will feel more worse looking in the mirror. They will understand you know exactly how weak and dependent on you they are. And this will be for them very bad feeling which will not let them to be happy with you and next to you. They can't win a fight with their own ego. Even not for money. They will use you as much as possible, but after time, they will need to change you for new woman. Because that new woman will have no idea how weak is that man she is dealing with. In front of new woman they can feel again like real men (of course in fact it's fake reality) and this fairytale with the new one will last until she will not see the same - how weak and dependent on woman these men are. They can't take care about own family, about own wives without you. Some white men can survive that feeling of being inferior in relationship. But not Maasais with extraordinary stupid and strong ego which is growing in them in that patriarchal culture from day of birth. This ego came from the childhood when the men are growing up as those stronger, as leaders. Really not easy to fight with it in the adult age.
You are just the proof for them of their weakness and this is the reason why they never can love you. Each time they see you it will press them to feel inferior. Each time they will see you they will feel hurt by reality, which is not good for them. And for sure for people with such a high ego it's not good - to suffer like that. That's why they will try to replace you for new woman after certain time and that's why they cannot and they will not love you.
They hate you for the feeling how weak they feel next to you.
PS: all the articles are written in general, of course such a special man in maasai tribe who will have not strong and stupid male ego can still exist. Somewhere :) But he will be only an exception. One of million. Most of them will never forgive you that you are more rich, more successful, more strong, better, more smart and more intelligent, and more able to earn money.
They know very well they are incapable to earn enough money for their family and THIS TERRIBLE FEELING and all those proofs about their own failure they will not forgive you.
I want to warn about Mokotyo Seperwa (Maiko) from uroa, some years before from Stone town. One eye of him is damaged and also the lip. He is maybe 28 years old. He is a beachboy!!! Taking thousands of euros of you and cheating and love bombing.
ReplyDeleteHe’s in a relationship with a girl from Germany. Arivel living in Zanzibar. Working in a big hotel at the east side. Maybe you can warn her, if she’s interested. Before he was in relationship with an girl from BW in Germany. Vivi, I remember….
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