BEAUTIFUL LOVE STORIES FROM MAASAI BUSH

If you are trying to find something about Maasai culture connected to white women, you will find ONLY beautiful stories about beautiful Maasai people and beautiful Maasai culture which will REALLY impress you. Many ladies having travel agencies with their maasais husbands are offering dream vacation in the bush for big money among the Maasais, describing beautiful life there, how they are getting a lot of love from Maasai people and daily they are adding new videos which have to document great life among the Maasais full of love and respect. 

But then you can find this blog and of course you will ask yourself. What's going on here ?

After all what is written in this blog and after all what you can read from influencers having thousands of followers on Instagram, Youtube or TikTok it's very clear for everyone to understand that someone is lying. Or at least someone is very quiet about the whole the truth from the Maasai boma. Now the question is WHO is that one? Authors of this blog or influencers from TikTok and Instagram ? 

Let's look closer on this topic:

THIS BLOG 

This blog was created as personal blog about the experiences with Maasai men from Zanzibar. And each Maasai you will meet at Zanzibar will try to take you to his home in mainland. If not today, then tomorrow, but for sure. The reason why he is taking you there we already had described. 

In short: because each Maasai beachboy needs to use you emotionally and after the visit in the bush he can use the children there, his mother, his sisters (one of those was introduced to you as sister is in reality his wife) for stronger and more specific emotional manipulation and of course, once you are in the bush, you will pay. For meat, for sugar, for soap, for clothes, for fruits, for maize, for sweets for children. You will daily pay for something what they need. And especially welcomed you will be if you will buy the cows or goats on the cow market or motorcycle or you will build the house there. FOR THEM. For the Maasai scammers who are playing whole the time with your emotions, with your good heart and with your trust using your life savings in the way of strong manipulation and lies. 

This blog until today didn't earn any dollar from its existence and it doesn't suppose to earn any money in the future. The sense and goal of this blog is only to warn other people before they will fall in the trap with Maasais "working" at Zanzibar which can and will cost a lot of money and it can also destroy the life of their victims. 

We didn't find any information anywhere on Internet (except of the Legends and Myths about Engai - God of Maasais). So from where we know all that ? From nowhere ? From dreams ? We have better source of knowledge. Maasais themselves were showing us all we know today. Maasais were teaching us how it is working in the bush regarding on the white women. We have all knowledge from Maasai bush and from Maasais themselves. 

We were trying to discuss with Maasais or white women living there for long and we asked them directly - if something in the blog is lie - just tell us and we will delete it immediately. Nobody told us until today that something here is a lie. Educated Maasais promised us the help but at the end it was only a promise, empty words, lie  and nothing has happened until today. No meeting, no solution, no punishment for scammers. Nothing. Until today Maasai men in Zanzibar ARE FREE to destroy women, what they are doing on daily base,  cheating them, beating them, lying to them, stealing their money, using them for trips to Europe (for free - of course white woman will pay for all) and at the end they will replace that  woman who was helping them for new one who will pay more. Just from one evening to next morning. Ciao. After all. All that without any shame, without any guilt and without any empathy. Such a beautiful people.

THE INFLUENCERS FROM SOCIAL MEDIA

On other hand you can find many beautiful love stories. 

Those stories you can see almost DAILY NEW on social media - all those women are new fresh victims of Maasai scammers. All these ladies new in Tanzania know NOTHING about Maasais so we can understand that they are lost. Really lost. As everyone of us was lost at beginning. Many of these women are also earning money by impressing people with their love stories on social media but probably most of them really and honestly don't know anything. They mostly don't really know that their love stories are fake. Then it's very hard to blame them or judge them, they are lied and manipulated.

But there are women who are living among Maasais for very long time, some of them permanently. The chance that those women don't know anything actually doesn't exist at all. It's not possible. Once you will spend the longer time in the bush - you will know and you have to know what and where is the reality.

But these women are talking nicely about the culture, about the Maasais - with goal to impress others - to convince them to visit the bush.

Now we will talk only about the stories where women are living in Tanzania with Maasais, having Maasai husband for long time. What all these stories have common ? There is one thing, which is a connection. Which is the same for all these women out there. 

THE MONEY. 

As everyone else, also women living in Tanzania need money ! And because their Maasai husbands will not support them with money (money is always responsibility of the white woman) she needs to earn money herself. How to earn money in the middle of the bush? Really not easy challenge. And once she is in the bush, she needs money not only for herself but also for her husband, for his maasai wife (all maasai men from Zanzibar are married already), his children - for his big family. Because they ask whole the time. Someone is sick - they need money. Someone is going to be married - they need money. Someone is going to school - they need money. Someone will die - they need  money. Someone is going to Zanzibar - they need money. Someone has not enough maize - they need money. Someone is having a lot of kids - they need money. White woman needs constantly to think about money there. Where to get them. If not, her husband will replace her by someone who will support his family with money more once he will get that opportunity. So it's a big stress and a big pressure. What is the way ? Just make a business plan. For example travel agency, writing books, channel on social media or charity non-profit organisation. For all that they need to promote Maasai bush and Maasai people in a good light. To get influencers , customers or patrons (financial supporters). If they would speak bad about Maasais - they would be in real danger in Maasai bush and  nobody would go there for vacation or support them with the money. Who would want to support criminals - nobody. All of those women on social media are earning some money from GOOD IMAGE of Maasais. How they could talk badly about them. How they could go against own business and against own money. 

In some way it's easy to understand but in other way - those women who are not telling whole the truth in honest way or they are directly lying have to take own responsibility for their words and speech. Because many people will TRUST THEM. Many people, especially women will come to the bush without any ATTENTION of danger waiting for them there. Without any idea that they can be (and they will be) used and abused. It's partly about the PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY of those women living in Tanzania, how they will inform others. We are different people but all of us can decide who we want to be. 

White women living for long time in Maasai community have very difficult and hard position there. First - as women by gender - second as women by white color of skin and last but important - for need to hide the truth when Maasai young men at Zanzibar are visible scammers doing crimes daily. Nothing from this is easy to handle. What can happen after all to those women ? They could run away after few years because it's too hard life there for the mzungu and never come back or they will become slowly one of them - one of the Maasais - it's the only way how to survive there in the bush for long. At time they will not feel any responsibility for white people (especially not for white women), earning money for each costs and using trust of others for own benefits and profits exactly as Maasai men from Zanzibar are doing it today.

White women living in the bush permanently need money and they can get money from many sources: 

They can earn money on social media like TikTok, Youtube, Instagram - more followers they have - more they can earn. But of course we know how social media today are working. Mostly the people there are trying to create a world around them, which in reality doesn't exist - only with effort to get more and more followers, likes and subscribers - potential customers for their business in the bush.

Also they can try to write a book similar to "White Maasai" from Corinne Hofmann. That book was a bestseller 40 years ago. But where is a difference? Corinne wrote all in the honest way, not hiding anything bad because she didn't need to impress any tourists to support her business, she didn't need to convince anyone to visit the bush. She could write everything as it was, she didn't need to be focused on any self-censorship in that time. White women living in the bush today need to be quiet if they still want to live there. Writers today are only writing to impress others with the main goal  to promote something in the best (but fake) light to support their own business plan. It has nothing to do with describing of any reality. Mostly it's kind of conscious manipulation. That's why the books today don't have that real value as the book written in the past. There is only very few reality inside of such a book. There is only what others need to read, but nothing else.

They can have profit also from tourism itself by founding travel agency - taking white people from Europe to Maasai bush (not for free), and offering them accommodation and trips (also not for free). 

And finally some women can also earn some money in way of charity. They will ask others to help poor Maasais people and from this activity, they can have some money. 

The situation is very different today than it was 15 years ago. It's very possible when some women came in to the bush many many years ago, maybe they were treated by different way. But today the situation is thousands times worse and more terrible. Beachboys are worse and worse each single year, more brave enough and confident for doing crimes on white people. And those women know exactly how are the circumstances today. For sure they know but they are quiet about it.

FINALLY ONE MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THESE INFLUENCERS INTRODUCING MAASAI CULTURE AND MAASAI PEOPLE IN THE GOOD LIGHT. ONCE YOU WILL WRITE IN THEIR SOCIAL MEDIA DIFFERENT COMMENT THAN THEY WANT TO READ, THEY WILL IMMEDIATELY DELETE THAT COMMENT FROM THERE AND THEY WILL IMMEDIATELY BLOCK YOU. THEY WILL JUST EASILY MAKE YOU SILENT. AND THIS IS THE WAY HOW THESE LADIES ARE CREATING A FAKE, UNREAL AND DANGEROUS ILLUSION AND THEY WILL NEVER TAKE ANY PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT. 

BUT REMEMBER - the truth is only ONE. There are not two different truths about anything. It's only up to you whom you will believe and what will be that only truth for you. But ONCE YOU KNOW BOTH SIDES OF THE STORY, your decision whom to trust and what to do will be only your responsibility.

If a woman will decide to date a maasai man - we only can wish her  good luck  - she really will NEED IT.

If a woman will decide to hold the distance from maasai man - congratulation. She will save a lot of money, mental and physical health and years which she can spend with a strong and honest man who will love her, respect her, stay on her side and support her on her way going through the life. 

This a Maasai man (especially that one from the beach) will never do. They feel only responsibility for their Maasai wives, children and parents at home in boma, but not for a white woman. Never. 

GOOD LUCK FOR ALL. 

PS: Many women who were abused and used by the Maasai men are feeling very ashamed to speak about this topic loudly. That's why we will never know about most of the real stories which had happened out there yesterday. Influencers are deleting each bad experience from their blogs and accounts, so there is only small chance how white women can be warned and how they can make a right decision for their own life..